about a guy that I know and I know that this will never happen but yet its all I think about. Morning, noon, and night. When my husband and I have sex I am thinking about this guy. Sometimes the fantasy guys flirts with me and that just makes it worse. Please tell me what to do!!!!!
2007-02-22 02:22:58 · 10 answers · asked by prl_may 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not let the flirting go any further. I think it's really fuked up that u think bout him during sex, even though your husband does not know, its still wrong and when u lust after a another man like this, its like ur cheating on him, ur not even "having sex" with your husband. If u let these feeling get stronger, ur asking for trouble. GET AHOLD OF YOURSELF GIRL! LET IT GO!!
2007-02-22 02:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that fantasies are normal and do no harm as long as you do not actually live out this fantasy - because, then you obviously has jeopardized your marriage. I think that fantasies actually help many relationships. I would suggest doing nothing, but if you actually think it is affecting your marriage, then I would suggest talking to a counselor. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 02:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im getting the same thing
a guy i will never have, and no i can never have
i think of him so much
and fantasise about him at lleast 3 times a day
i have no idea how to stop the fantasising
when you find out let me know
2007-02-22 02:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion there is absolutely nothing wrong with fantasizing, I think it's healthy for a relationship. Just don't go any further because you could lose what you have with your husband. And if it makes sex more interesting with your husband there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-02-22 02:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by todayillsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont see the point in keeping a fantasy to myself if i didnt tell my husband, how else would it come true? then onto the next, and the next pointless keeping it to ones self
2016-05-23 22:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up!! Learn to love your husband again.
2007-02-22 02:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Selena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass. Us ladies all go through this. Believe me, men do this just as much as women! Smile, your normal!
2007-02-22 02:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are married,, so remember fantasies are normal.. everyone has them just like you do, whether they admit it or not.
2007-02-22 02:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is fine... My husband always fantasizes about my sister when he is banging me. I don't care.
2007-02-22 02:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your married.....let it go
2007-02-22 02:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋