2007-02-22 02:16:25 · 23 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is disrespecting u and if u want to be disrespected then keep dating him...but he really need to grow up
b/c he is doing that it means that he is no happy with the way u are and first and foremost if a guy is not happy with u with the way u are then u should say goodbye to him and find someone who likes u for u and not wishing or gawking at other Biotches
2007-02-22 02:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister married a guy who was gawking at other women from their first date. Thirty five years later he is still gawking and is as inconsiderate about her feelings. He is even more obnoxious saying things like doesnt that woman look f- able. I dont know how my sister puts up with it, but over the years she has also changed from a happy go lucky person to a sad one. These character traits never change. Dump your boyfriend now. It will save you a lot of heartache later.
2007-02-22 07:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by inspectclouseau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better it being your b/f that does this than your husband! Seriously, don't tolerate it in your dating just like you wouldn't stand for it in a marriage. You can have the mature talk of, "I feel really uncomfortable and disrespected when you spend time (talking, looking, flirting) w/ other girls/women when we're together." I've come to discover that a lot of guys don't think what they're doing is all that bad - a lot of women feel this way, too. In some circles, it seems to be "expected" behavior from guys and anyone you talk to will put you down by saying, "All guys do that - don't be so critical and don't take it personally, you're too sensitive - it's nothing. He's not taking them home or going to their place, etc." I totally agree w/ you and all you said. I might turn this around a little: maybe he should be concerned that you're going to leave. After all, you aren't being shown the respect you asked for, he's flirting right in front of you and ignored your feelings regarding his inappropriate behavior. His actions don't have to be wrong in anybody's eyes except yours. People he knows, works with, hears on the radio, etc don't have to share your opinion -- just you. He's not dating anyone of them and doesn't have to please them so he needs to make (help you) feel happy and secure. It's downright nasty for him to comment on how he respects/envies guys who have relationships w/ younger women. That deserves a slap - maybe not literally but definitely, a good visualization. Maybe he continues on w/ this kind of behavior b/c it doesn't seem to bother you. You've said you've spoken to him re this and -- no changes. 1. He doesn't realize that what he does is wrong, possibly his Dad, brothers did the same, while he was growing up? 2. He's always done this and no one else has ever complained - that he'll admit to - so all of a sudden, you're the one w/ the problem and you need therapy so that he can continue these flirtatious, fantasizing, mini-affairs he partakes in. Sorry for the length, here but it is near and dear to my heart. Good luck. Stop it before it becomes so overwhelming that you just turn away from it/ignore it and slowly drift away from him.
2016-05-23 22:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose some weight and dress more suggestive like the girls he's looking at. Do whatever you have to do to look better than the other women and his eyes are going to be all yours. It's really just that simple. Do you wear pumps and cute clothes? Or do you wear baggy jeans and tennis shoes. What about your hair? Are they all done up and your hair is drab? Look at the women he looks at and take note girl!!
2007-02-22 02:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Doright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start gawking at men in front of him and see how he likes it
2007-02-22 02:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he's really make you upset talk to him. Deep down if you trust him, you shouldn't need to. If he flirts, speak up. looking at other woman is what alot of men are like.
2007-02-22 02:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start pointing out the packages you see other guys carrying.
2007-02-22 02:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play his game or move on theres a hotter guy out there who will treat you better!
2007-02-22 02:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty shallow and unless he has a lot of other redeeming qualities, he's probably not worth wasting your time on.
2007-02-22 02:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slap him around the face or understand that he is ONLY looking,.. no harm in that,.. touching of course would be a problem,.. but I see no harm in looking,.. it's only human to look.
2007-02-22 02:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by wildimagination2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋