ok there is this guy that works where i go to school and he said he wants me to be his girlfriend and i said yes because i have known him for about 2 years. but then he changed and started asking for things i wasnt willing to give away and he stopped calling but then he would call every know and then. i dont think we are dating but when he calls he acts like we are dating and i really dont know what to do. please give me your best advice on what you think i should do. thanks
2007-02-22 02:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he should go it is not worth it
2007-02-22 02:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Signs things are wrong:
#1 He's old enough to be working while you're young enough to be in school.
#2 He wants things you "aren't willing to give away" even though you don't even know if you're dating or not.
#3 His behavior is inconsistent.
Can you say Pedaphile boys and girls? If he is an adult and you are a minor (and it sure sounds this way) and he is asking for physical things then you need to report him to the police or the school principle. What he wants is ILLEGAL and not good for you physically or emotionally. If you have a good relationship with your parents tell them first and then they can go with you to the police or principle - but either way you need to report him PRONTO. If he doesn't get what he wants by intimidating you he might turn violent and try to take it by force. Adult men who want children or teenagers are mentally ill and dangerous. Do it NOW.
2007-02-22 10:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh...I would say that you are not really his girlfriend...maybe by the time he is a teenager he will be ready to really have a girlfriend.
2007-02-22 10:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he works at your highschool, he's weird so stay away. If he works at your College, and you like him, give it up for him.
2007-02-22 10:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Doright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to get "the things that you aren't willing to give away"
2007-02-22 10:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by 21questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. Date someone else.
2007-02-22 10:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK yes it seems like ur dating but ur not.
2007-02-22 10:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up and don't pick up when he calls
2007-02-22 10:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are dating. and let him know that.
2007-02-22 10:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋