me and my bf have been going out off and on for almost a year
and he says we won't go all the way but my mom says we will how do i lisin to my mom or my bf ps i was at his house and i lamost sucked on his thing and i know if i had he whould have liked it so should i do it please i realy need help pss he wants to go all the way
2007-02-22 01:56:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No u can't because ur not married yet.
2007-02-22 02:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of being in a relationship is respecting the other partner's wishes. I'm sure there are things that you haven't wanted to do but your boyfriend has- did he respect you in your decision? Going all the way, pleasing one another sexually, etc. is a very big step and one that should be comfortable for both people- not just one. There is obviously a bond between the both of you if you've been together a year. Just consider waiting an exicting thing- the longer you wait, the better it will be. It would be horrible to push him into something that he's not ready for and therefore wouldn't enjoy as much as he could. Give him a break, back off of the idea and just be happy that you've found someone you love being with. The rest will come with time and when the time IS right, it will be wonderful, rather than rushed.
Hope that helps.
2007-02-22 10:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by schmidtee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKay, here is the thing.
Don't do it because you know he will like it, or because so and so said this and that. Only do it if you feel you are ready, mentally and physicaly. Before you go all the way, ask yourself if you love him. Your virginity is a precious gift you can only give once. So if your boyfriend is the one you want to give it to, and you really want him to be with you in that way, then go for it. But be safe about it. They make condoms and pills to preotect you from STD's, but they have not made anything yet to protect your heart.
2007-02-22 10:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See thats the problem you dont need to listen to your mom or your bf see you have to listen to yourself listen to your heart follow your dreams and go for what you beleive but you do need to hold off on giving him head though before you do wind up in trouble and if you dont want to wait than all i can say is just have safe sex that all. Just make sure taht he is ok with it and if your ready
2007-02-22 10:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Amber N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom says that you will go all the way with him? I don't really understand this. Your mom wants you to have sex with him? Sounds weird. However, if your boyfriend says he doesn't want to go all the way, respect his wishes.
2007-02-22 10:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Baby you are too immature to have a bf. Keep your body (including your mouth) away from him and every other boy; have some respect for yourself.
2007-02-22 10:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by justchillin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Go w/ your gut feeling. Guys will say anything to have sex w/ a girl, ANYTHING. Sex is a wonderful thing but if you do it when you're not ready you will NOT enjoy it and you will have REGRETS about it as you get older.
2007-02-22 10:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by kimchee_boi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
it sound as if you want to go at the lest half the way. so that makes mom half right. and him not right at all if he wants ot go all the way, you need to decide what you want and stick to it. don't let someone else make those import decisions for you.
2007-02-22 10:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom. And I would get a new boyfriend. Because sexual pressure is not right!
2007-02-22 10:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is a wuss or his really scared just give it time and your mom is right everyone ends up in bed with someone.....if you can't wait then just durg him... jk lol...tell him to trust you and wear a condom
2007-02-22 10:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋