I asked my ex girlfriend for sex?

Question

Right in front of my current girlfriend but I did not mean for my
girlfriend to hear it. She walked up behind me while I was talking to my ex. My girlfriend left the club and will not take my calls.
Since I did not actually do anything with the ex I feel it should be
allright. Its not like I actually did cheat. What should I do to get back into good standing with my girlfriend ??

Answer 1

In the first place you shouldn't be asking to have sex with other girls, and especially not your ex. You missed up big time, so don't be surprised if she doesn't take you back, because I know I wouldn't. How would you have liked it if she would of have asked her ex for sex. So just put yourself in her position. *_*

Answer 2

First of all you should question why you asked your ex for sex. Did you miss her? Are you not getting any with your current girlfriend? Either way if you are looking else where for sex it usually means you are not in love with the person you are with, so you might as well let the current girl go and move on. But, never go backwards, it is too hard.

Answer 3

It sounds like you really didn't know what u were doing or simply decided to act up like a very stupid dude (sorry for being harsh here, but that's the way it is!). How could u go back to ur ex and ask for this while u have a gf and especially in the presence of that gf? This is totally unacceptable. But what u should do now is to buy a bouquet of nice flowers and ask one her best friends to accompany to her place and deeply apologize. Once you get there you should kneel to ask for forgiveness and swear not to never ever repeat that sort of thing. If this doesn't work, u should simply learn ur lessons and move on. OK? All the best!

Answer 4

if u have a gf why would u ask ur ex for sex? what happen ur cu rent gf is not giving none or u just being greedy? well if i was ur current gf i wouldn't want to talk to u anymore because if u have the courage to ask and if she did not hear u could have gone off with the ex and actually do it. i don't know about getting ur standing back with her is a possibility, at least for me it wouldn't . sorry can't help u.

Answer 5

If I was your girlfriend, I would have left too! What you did was very disrespectful.

I don't think your going to be able to get back into good standing. Picture this, your girlfriend doing what you did, I don't think you would be very happy about that.

Plus, your ex is your ex for a reason so why do you want to sleep with her?

Answer 6

Try this , pretend that you walked up behind your girlfriend in the club and she just happened to be talking to her x and hear her tell the guy " I want you to make love to me" . or you know something to that effect. Tell me what would you do? How would you feel? I don't think that you would be very happy or even want anything to do with your girlfriend anymore after hearing something like that right. I am not trying to give you a sermon just something to think about in the future. The girl you are with should make you so happy and feel satisfied that no other girl catches your atttention like that. The girl you are with should be like a priceless treasure that nothing would be worth the risk of loosing her. If you dont feel that the girl you are with fills all that then nicely break it off before you break her heart. Sure alot of people would probably say that you were a jerk or a real dog to have done something like that but I look at it in another way , When ever a man goes out and looks for sex somewhere else its because he isnt being completly satisfied at home or is bored and thats usually because in reality the couple really werent meant to be together in the first place. If a woman really truly loves her man she is going to keep him so happy he wouldnt even want to think of another woman and never finds himself bored. But if the man isnt really doing it for the woman then she isnt going to fill like doing all that for him. People usually stay together out of habit and because they are comfortable with the other person and what they thought was love wasnt and life has ended up being routine. After awhile one or the other is bound to cheat. I think the only reason that you want your girlfriend back is because your x didnt take you up on your offer so you ended up as s out on getting a piece. I dont see why you think that even if your girlfriend took you back that the relationship would work because now for sure it wont. It will always be in the back of her mind what you were about to do. If you were smart you would start over fresh and find a new girl. Dont rush into making some girl your girlfriend until you are really sure that you two both hit it off. A girl should be your everything. You'll know when you find the right one when she is all you think about and you find yourself checking yourself so you dont screw up and loose her.
More than likely your girlfriend will take you back after she is satisfied that you have gotten on your kneess and begged her enough so that she feels like she won but you still will be in the same boat once you are back together. You still wont be completly satisfied and will once again one day look for some kitty somewhere else. Just tell her that you are sorry and that you were a jerk and she deserves better and with any luck you two can be friends. Here is a short story that hopefully will give people something to think about.
A little boy begs his mom and dad for a puppy . Please mom please dad , please I want a puppy, I promise I will take care of the puppy and love it , oh please please please please i want a puppy. Mom and dad give in and the little boy gets his puppy. The first few months the little boy loves his puppy and takes good care of it and takes it everywhere. But now the puppy has grown and just isnt the same and not as cute anymore. The little boy has also grown up some and has new friends and more things to do. The puppy used to be right there at the boys side all the time but now it sits in the backyard with sad little eyes waiting and waiting for the little boy to come and get him. The little boy still feeds the puppy everyday and cleans up the mess but the playtime has completly stopped and it is all routine now. THe little boy wasnt quite ready to have a puppy in his life yet . He thought that is what he wanted but it really wasnt. This is what happens to people when they start going out and looking for a partner. They think that is what they want and at first it is great but if they really werent ready either the chick or the guy is going to end up like the puppy. Thats why i say its better not to become steady and play with alot of lets say puppies and not have to have it as the only one and have all the responsabilities of having the puppy until you are completly sure you are ready to make the puppy your one and only priority. Get it . I hope so.

Answer 7

Were you high then?

Are you high right now?!?!?

Dude, you screwed up and your new ex-girlfriend (trust me, she is now an ex) wants nothing to do with you; you were caught looking for sex outside the relationship and the only reason you're sorry is b/c you were caught.

Should be alright because nothing happened?!?! Fantastic; I'm going to try that excuse next time

Answer 8

Like many things in life, its the intention that counts. The fact that you didn't get the chance to go thought with it is almost a detail.

You want to get back into good standing with your girlfriend?
Swear that you will NEVER do that kind of thing again, and keep kissing her bum untill she forgives you.

Answer 9

you're screwed.. because if i was her i wouldnt take you back..... you didnt do it because you got caught.. but if she didnt hear you then you would have done it... if you really like her or love her or w/e you wouldnt have asked you ex for sex in the first place.... if you care about your gf then you should let her go in her best interest, she doesnt deserve to get hurt anymore...

lets say you did get back together, she will constantly think you are cheating or will cheat and she will constantly be on your back, and you dont want that. it will drive you crazy and the relationship will never be fixed, just constant tension

Answer 10

well, first off why?!?! your girlfriend (if you still go out). You're onna have to gain her trust back befroe things get better. I mean gah, why would u ask ur ex that? && if u really meant it then y are u with your g/f now? Which do u love more?!? U need to find that out, first! But say sorry && give her flowers && offer to take her to dinner! Do anything u can to atleast get her to talk to u && answer ur calls.