in the two mths that we stay with our inlaws my hubby acts as if he doesnt know me ,no love , no respect with everybody trying to grab a piece of his time,wat do i do ???once i tried to express myself vocally and i was thrown out,for the sake of kids i came back.now wat do i do live like a doormat,try to limit hi visits or indulge in sum voodoo(does it work)i m willing 2 do anything now
2007-02-22 01:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by curiousindianwife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
on the contrary they r all dependent on him financially he is quite rich and i dont want to leave him and struggle out for money with my kids with no support
2007-02-22 01:54:07 · update #1
he wont pay a penny if i dont live with him i know him
2007-02-22 01:54:33 · update #2
Y'all move out.
2007-02-22 01:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voodoo doesn't work, leave him, file a restraining order or so on. It sounds like you have financial issues if you're staying with your inlaws, so try moving in some place cheap.
2007-02-22 09:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you are with your in-laws let them have him! He owes them if you are living with them. Do all you can to get out of their house. I found out many years ago not to get between my husband and his family. He loves them and comes home to me because he loves me too. Don't make him choose between his Mother and you, he'll lose no matter what. This is a very stressful time for him, wait it out and do all you can to change the situation. If you are cooperative and helpful he will see you as being on his side and go to you wanting to shut everyone else out and spend time with you. When you just let go and wait, he'll turn around and look for you. Good Luck! =)
2007-02-22 09:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab the kids and leave.
You're seeing his true nature, now that he's back at home. This is how it always was. Sit back and reflect on that. Is this what you want for yourself for the rest of your life?
2007-02-22 09:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about voodoo
2007-02-22 09:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Star~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋