i mean physical appearence...or personality plays a role too ?
2007-02-22 01:01:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks mean something, whats a relationship if you have a hard time looking at them? but you also need personality because then its not going anywhere
2007-02-22 01:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Liz B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say both. I mean a girl can't go just for looks. Cause then if the guy is a jerk or completely stupid all you will ever have is the physical. And then when they get old there will be nothing there for the girl to appreciate it. I even like personality more than looks cause I like someone that I can have fun with someone who is a good guy. If you don't have those things than they could be the greatest looking guy in the world and it wouldn't matter. The guy I am with lucky for me has both of those qualities. So like I said if a girl wants something real then she needs both qualities, looks and personality not just one. Good luck!
2007-02-22 01:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person doesn't have to be perfect but I do have to be physically attracted to the person since that's the 1st thing you notice. But if the person has a bad attitude or personality than the person is not all that attractive anymore might has well say the good looks just went to waste. If the person has a good personality than hey it's "ON!"!
2007-02-22 01:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by channel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks do matter. like, u have to take care of urself, b clean and all. personality is the most important though. if sum1 were like the hottest guy on the planet, yet had no personality at all, it would b a compete waste of time just to b around him. so ya, personality first, and then also a bit of a good appearance.
2007-02-22 01:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality ofcourse.. it plays a very important role.. its inner beauty that will always stay and not change till the end of time.. to me, its his loving and caring heart that matters most and tats more than enough for me as he has a great personality...
2007-02-22 22:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by mystic world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks mean a bit to me yes, but you dont have to look great, as long as i see that you are clean and like who you are, thats where the looks come into it for me, cause when i see you look after yourself, then i say you look good, but most of all the personality , because a nice person can be hard to find,but to nice, it not always good
2007-02-22 01:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by sammi j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say looks are obviously what first attracts someone but that wont cut it without a good personality.
2007-02-22 01:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Yellowtulips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women cut good looking guys more slack. They perceive good looking guys as generally having better personalities, being more intelligent, etc. It's human nature.
2007-02-22 01:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks do matter but personality is bigger 2 me!!! If i'm gonna spend the rest of my life with a guy, i don't think he's still gonna look hot when he's 70 but we'll still be friends;)
2007-02-22 01:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks help sweeten the pot but it is not the most important thing to me.Personality is the most important thing and is what seals the deal. I like someone who is funny,caring, and driven.
2007-02-22 01:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋