We are slowly progressing to entire every-other-wkend with the bio-father. We have had 3 one night overnights so far and the bio-father took away my child's migo phone and didn't ans his cell when I tried to call. He has refused to meet with the child's therapist to discuss these issues. The guardian ad litum, the judge and the therapist want the child to have contact with the mother whenever he wants to and that I should at least be able to speak with him once per day. They feel it is best for the child. The next vist will be the full weekend and I don't feel comfortable at all - I want him to explain his behavior - my child says he makes him change out of the pants he wears where he keeps the phone...
What should I do?
2007-02-22 00:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by Bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think my son is being harmed but the bio has issues and always tries to be controlling. My son appears to enjoy the visits as the bio has another son a few yrs older and he is my only child at my home...
My lawyer of the past 2 yrs just informed me she is no longer going to practice. I cannot afford to hire someone else, her bills have put me under as it is... What form would I file with the court? I figure I would rather just contact his attorney and tell her I am postponing visits until he contacts my child's therapist - what do you think? The judge is already annoyed with the requency we have come before him, I would rather it be him that drags me in...
2007-02-22 02:15:03 · update #1
You need to go to the Guardian ad Litem, the Judge, the Caseworker/Therapist WITH your child, and separately ... inform them of the situation ... and have them verify from your child that this is what is happening. Seems to me as if your ex is stealing property (the things that the child is taking with him -- which my ex did -- and yes, I did report it to the courts), and this could be a problem IF your child is NOT allowed to contact you by the ex ... a situation I am very familiar with.
2007-02-22 01:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very uneasy feeling about this. Any man that will keep his child from any contact with his mother is very controlling and potentially abusive. I don't want to scare you, but I have seen this happen. The judge in the case told him to allow you contact with your son while he is in the father's custody, so you can file an injunction against him for interference of court order.
Do it right away. Why does your son have to change clothes??? Why does the father confiscate a phone that he does not pay for? Does the child even WANT to visit his father?
2007-02-22 00:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the legal experts who seem to already be involved in the matter. Tell them that he is not complying with the court orders, and ask what can be done to enforce the order.
Follow the rules they've laid down, and get them involved when the rules aren't being followed by the other party. You've obviously already tried to work it out with the father, as you say he's refused to discuss it with the therapist. Your next step would be to fall back to the legal system to enforce the rules of your arrangements.
2007-02-22 00:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could take this remember back to court docket considering they are needless to say violating their end of the contract. the unhappy area to taking it back to court docket is greater desirable than probably your toddlers will would desire to be in touch and dragged into it to testify that the mummy has been cutting-edge and helping besides as administering drugs to them. additionally they could would desire to testify bearing directly to the derogatory comments and feedback being made in front of them. in any different case that is all pay attention say and does no longer postpone. possibly you could consult with the daddy and tell him that's he does no longer persist with the contract which you will take him back to court docket and perhaps this could scare him. If no longer then I recommend you do what you will desire to do to guard your toddlers. solid luck to you and your toddlers in all this!
2017-01-03 07:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court let the judge tell him he needs to comply.
2007-02-22 00:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by flashpro 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not playing games with him especially when it comes to your child. You will take his *** to court first.
2007-02-22 00:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋