Ok everyone has different opinions on this particular situation that people can be in. But I also feel that not everyones situation is exactly the same as people are different etc & u can't tell everything from a short paragraph!. Let me tell u my story and I ask you what I should do about it in the future. Me & this guy met 7 to 8 months ago, gelled right from the start right. He told me that he really liked me for my intellect, sense of humour and to have someone as a great companion. When we 1st met he didn't feel like he wanted anything too heavy etc. So that was cool, then we started getting closer and closer like best buddies as well as lovers. we started seeing each other even lived together.But during the process was being very indecisive and CONFUSED would be what I would call it! Every time we were together or movin on he would tell me that I was perfect him and that he felt that I was the one, but he is confused as he didn't know if he wanted anything too heavy at this stage
2007-02-22 00:19:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell me if this guy is stupid!! damn stupid! The thing is that he has told me himself that I was perfect for him and keeps running back to me everytime I try to move on. But is just VERY CONFUSED!! ABOUT ANYTHING SERIOUS! Why would you let go of a GOOD THING when you know it yourself?? I have left him to it now, and i think that when he DOES come bac which he will as I KNOW him that I shouldn't take him back!! is he an ***, is a guy an *** when they know that they have someone perfect but let you go as they are afraid to commit!!
2007-02-22 00:22:17 · update #1
stop wasting your time and move on. He just likes knowing that you'll always be there when he wants you to be, so stop playing games now and go find someone new. It's really that simple. Is it worth this much torment?
2007-02-22 00:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He definetly has some issues discover out if he's already married or he's below the administration of his father and mom etc. a solid marriage could be while the two between the companions have an entire committment that inspite of all time-commemorated and unkown hurdles they're going to stay married finished with the aid of out their existence. If this committment is taken then each little thing is okay. as a replace of having this committment those days a impressive style of the folk only pass on days with the aid of slumbering mutually thinking they might understand one yet another yet basically wind up with dropping interest in intercourse with the substantial different and venturing for brand spanking new friends. Get this committment out of your pal then each little thing is okay.
2016-11-24 23:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right he is confused, but you have to decide on what you want, and once you do confront him it's no point on wasting time on someone that doesn't know what they want. You can take the risk of waiting round hoping he can make his mind up, but again that is a 50/ 50 chance of getting something good or even bad out of it. Men are very complicated, and scared when it comes to accepting commitments! you should always watch your back
2007-02-22 00:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by shanekwah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have here in this guy is a person who is afraid to commit to a longterm relationship. It's very simple to read this guy with the information presented. I'm positive this is his problem. I don't think he is stupid by any meaning of the word, rather just not ready or capable of living up to a longterm commitment.
2007-02-22 00:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to commit. He is interested in sex, but not ready yet for a serious relationship. It might take him some time before he can commit. If you don't want to wait that long find someone else.
2007-02-22 00:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are what he wants in a serious relationship the problem is he isn't ready for that relationship yet....he's not done livin it up, he still wants to have fun for a while and not worry about hurting anyone else with his actions.....if you are really that close you will still be around when he is ready to settle down and be the kind of person he wants to be for his partner.....he's avoiding the situation until he's ready so he doesn't mess it up now.....sounds like a good plan to me if you can wait that long.....dont rush him though if he isn't ready, let him have his play time we are all too serious anymore anyways.....he will be ready someday!
2007-02-22 00:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im in the same situation,, my bf dosent want a commitment we just fight every time we c each other ,, its been along time were togethere without going anywhere..
So it he's lost really ,well at least he thinks of commitment ,thats something.
Just let him think and give him space.. dont pust him or smother him.. let it come from him if he wants or dosent.. Good luck
2007-02-22 00:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by amyhamad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people should be kept just friends. He needs to find his feet in life and find what it is that he is searching for that leaves a gap that he expects you to fill. a relationship is made of two whole individuals. Dont take him back unless somethings changed.
2007-02-22 00:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU? you should be glad he doesn't want anything heavy yet and that he's not rushing into your pants. you got yourself a good one so don't take it for granted.
of course it is confusing when you move in. you'll have to figure out how to support eachother and yourself.
2007-02-22 00:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be that stupid. He keeps coming back into your life and into your bed. And you keep letting him come back. Apparently he knows the right things to say and you keep falling for it.
2007-02-22 00:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋