my g/f screwed up, but later realised her mistake but it's just hard for me to open up again though i still love her, but she's been complaining that i have changed after everything, she wants me to trust her again like i used to but i can't.. Pls help
2007-02-22 00:10:10 · 6 answers · asked by codedfeelins 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to be this loving and caring guy, but she took advantage of everything and took me for granted, even when i told her that, she said "she's not" but later found that she's been lying to me, and i just can't afford to trust her like i used to but she's been asking me for it.
2007-02-22 00:33:09 · update #1
if i were you...i cant either.....but then she deserve a second chance dont u think? for being honest to admit her mistake
2007-02-22 00:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she do that you cannot trust her? If she cheated then no i don't i would have trust issues also, matter of fact if my better half cheated i would just leave him and he could say he is sorry till the end of his day and i still wouldn't forgive him, but thats me, so what did she do you haven't said much.
2007-02-22 00:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she did something that made your relationship turn around... did she sleep with somebody you know??
I can totally understand you though... if you love her stick with her as what i've been saying with some of the advices that i give "Forgive but never Forget"...
Trust her but not to the fullest she might want you to trust her again but she might do it again more secretive and worse...
2007-02-22 00:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her and find a more worthy mate who values you for what you are. More homely and lively girl who is faithful to you. Respect yourself first.
2007-02-22 07:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need time and space or you need to just move on.
2007-02-22 00:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time
2007-02-22 00:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋