i feel in love with my boyfriend and i know he loves me.i gave him my all. ive never cheated,lied to him or done anything purposely to hurt his feelings, i am a very good girl.however, whenever i come to him about a concern of our relationship or try and get him to open up to me he gets really mean and says things that he knows would hurt my feelings.last night i for the thousanth time i asked him why does he treat me the way he does sometimes. overall he is good to me but when i try to get closer to him or come to him about problems then he trips. he says he cant love me the same way i love him b-cuz i have a son. he says im a very good girl but because there was some1 b4 him he's not comfortable with my sons father being able to see me.we have been broken up for 3 years! my sons father is engaged! all feelings for him is gone.why are we always discriminated against for having kids. i am a good woman and i deserve love just as much as anyone else does. what should i do?
2007-02-22 00:09:48 · 8 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take my word for it, this boyfriend of yours is a total jerk, all he's interested in is s ex. He doesn't love you because he doesn't really understand the meaning of love. It's a very lame excuse he is using because of your son and ex boyfriend.
To be honest, i think your current boyfriend is a total loser who needs to grow up and be a "Real Man", which may take many years to accomplish.
If i were in your position, i think i'd start looking for a much more mature man to be with, cause this current boyfriend sounds like a total loser.
2007-02-22 00:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. Sounds like he is giving you a really lame excuse for not getting close and if that is truly how he feels he will never treat your son the proper way. Put your son first and dump the jerk.
2007-02-22 00:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by MI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah we deserve to be loved. But I'm not going to lie to you. You need to really sit back and look at the big picture. If he feel that way then why would you want to put you're self out there for someone who never fully love like you love him. Girl find a way to get him out of your system and move on to bigger and better things.
2007-02-22 00:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by PASSIONATE LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk, sorry. If he loves you he shouldn't treat you that way. So what you have kids. Many guys would love to find a divorced mom with a kid. When I am not working as a Systems Analyst I subsitute elementary education, I absolutely adore kids. I recently hit on a divorced mom with three kids. Many guys would love to have you ! Get rid of that creep and find a guy who is going to love you for who you are.
2007-02-22 00:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this guy. He knew you had a child before becoming involved with you. He does not show an maturity in handling this relationship. Actually it sounds like he is also insecure. Look for someone more mature and accepting of your son.
2007-02-22 00:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 08:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he is using your son as a excuse that he is is afraid of commitment. If he doesn't fulfill your needs look for another man that will.
2007-02-22 00:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if he cant love you and your son some one will
it is not fare to but more it is not fare to your son
and he should be first i no it is hard but think about this
2007-02-22 00:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by pid140 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋