this is mainly for the guys, if a guy gets to know you like him and he doesnt like you back, although you're friends he'll start ignoring you? cos it happens to me all the time!
2007-02-21 23:47:37 · 17 answers · asked by Martina V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From a guys point of view.....
When you find out a girl is really into you it kinda has a negative effect on us because theres no 'chase' involved in it. Its like when you were younger and you completed a computer game...the game looses all appeal then.
I find it difficult to put all this into words but i'll try.
Nothing makes a guy fancy a girl more than when the girl is just out of reach for them....that fine line between potentially achieveable and 'out of my league'. Im talking about a girls behaviour here....and maybe a touch of looks. lol.
To get with a guy for relationship purposes, a girl needs to give off vibes that dont say 'im easy' (such as your completely into them). You've got to make yourself more appealling to this guy....give him the element of doubt...do you or don't you like him sort of thing. (make him want to convince you that your the girl for him). You need to play harder to-get because its the guys job to do the chasing....we like it (evolutionary role), and some of us do ok at it. ie) Dont get the roles mixed-up.
Good luck....sorry if i waffled.
2007-02-22 00:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, kinda freaky. But when I told her we were still friends. Now I don't talk to her at all.
And someone told me, and I didn't like them, so I kinda avoided them involuntarily.
So its the both way for both sides from both points of view.
2007-02-21 23:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends...If the guy is grown up and you're really friends - than no...but either those guys you talking about are still boys or you weren't friends really
2007-02-21 23:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Leoraysa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe sometimes. when you follow love it flees..but how is it mainly for the guys? you know it better than guys.
2007-02-21 23:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by fleur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i'm afraid so.
There's nothing worse than a woman who you know likes you getting to close if you dont like them.
It's spooky.
2007-02-21 23:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by trickyrick32 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like this is all in your own mind.
Suggestion don't be so pushy let things happen in their own time!
2007-02-21 23:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by scrambulls 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
may be his friends are more important to him my advise wark away and get a proper boy friend!
2007-02-21 23:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by witheringtonkeith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I think that is true.
2007-02-21 23:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by step b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. absolutelt right
2007-02-22 00:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
afraid so, most of us fellas like the chase, if we know you want us, it's not as exciting... sorry
2007-02-21 23:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Big Bad Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋