or would you remain loyal to the opposite "gender" in hopes of finding your one true soul mate---all the while receiving tons of rejection?
2007-02-21 23:20:53 · 16 answers · asked by Sue G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The opposite sex isn't attracted to me...[on a whole]. I get tons of rejections...I guess I should stop writing to Shakira so often...
That in no way means I will try being gay or any other alternative...
...although my dog has been looking at me quite suggestively lately...
I'll just wait for a blind woman to happen along....
I hope you find what you're looking for...and I hope you are comfortable with yourself first...
2007-02-21 23:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with the opposite sex. You only go play for the other team if you have some deep down emotions for the same sex. If that is the case then go for a same sex partner but don't do it just because you are getting alot of rejection and you think that you might get better results if you swing the other way. If you aren't really into the same sex then why try to go in that direction? I hope you get what I am saying. Good luck!
2007-02-21 23:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to find the perfect partner and concentrate on bettering your life . Once you start concentrating on other things you are quite likely to find just the right person.
However if you are using your rejections as a reason to explore the other side then obviously there is some curiosity there, try it out if you are game and see what it is like you will soon know if you are that way inclined.
Whatever you do make sure that you are comfortable with it and don't let anybody talk you into doing something that your not comfortable with.
2007-02-21 23:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY for starters only you know deep within who you want to be with be it female or male just b/c you go outside your gender does not make you a bad person they are several people today that find this is what they feel they have to do but let me warn you ... your life will change drastically so be prepared to take a stand if you so choose to become homo now myself i am totally straight married and have kids, i have never had to deal with the pain of rejection so i do not know exactly what you are going thru however i do not know your pain therefore i can not judge you good luck
2007-02-21 23:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person should stick with the gender THEY are attracted to. Switching teams just because you've been rejected seems a bit much and would only lead to more pain.
2007-02-21 23:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by J D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you can just decide one day I'm going to be homosexual now and start loving members of the same sex. I think if you tried you'd end up hurt just the same. If I had problems getting men on a whole, I would figure out why and then work to fix the problem.
2007-02-21 23:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. I am a woman and I only want to be with a man not another woman even if the situation existed that you spoke of I would still keeping hoping and hanging on for my soulmate. He's out there I know.
2007-02-21 23:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would that truely bring you happiness? to change your own focus of attraction? that really wouldn't work; changing your own desires for the sake of approval from others!
unfortunaltely, you've just met the wrong people. i think also, that your assumptions that the other sex isn't attracted to you is more your own insecurities and not such a global response.
get involved in areas that you really love, and you'll be more likely to meet others of the opposite sex who also like the same things and more likely to be attracted to you too.
don't be so hard on yourself! good luck.
2007-02-21 23:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i'd start looking at myself to see what it is that the opposite gender doesn't find attractive about me and do something about it.
2007-02-21 23:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that they wasnt attracted to you,maybe you can try to change yourself which will make them attracted to you then..Image importantly..Anywhere Friend,Failure is just success turned inside out.Doesnt mean you had failed,you will fail the rest of your life.There's no reason to hate the opposite gender.Your true soulmate will come.Sooner..Or lAter.......Good Luck in your future endeavours..
2007-02-21 23:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Angel_Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋