i just dont seem to like any other girl now... i cry every day... i want to kill myself every day... i cant liv widout her.. . i want to like girls but i cant ... wat is wrong wid me!!!!!!!!!!!!!.... i want to love sombody again.... plz plz plz help...........
2007-02-21 22:41:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U must relax and try to forget. Time is a great healer, just wait some more time. U will love some other girl, when the right girl makes her entry in your life, it will take some time.
2007-02-21 23:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the circumstances of your split but you must have really loved her. Did or have you tried to reconcile with her? Maybe you should do that if you haven't . Talk out your feelings with her. If she doesn't feel the same then if you can't move on and find someone else you should see a therapist to help you through this. It could also help you to stay very busy with friends and family . Surround yourself with people who love you . The worst thing you can do is sit around and feel sorry for yourself.You have to give yourself some time to find someone else also because they don't just appear out of nowhere. I know how hard it is to love someone when they don't feel the same, It feels as if you are the only one who has ever loved and lost. The isolation that you put yourself through is detrimental to your health and mental well being. Please try to come to grip with this situation and take care of yuorself. Good Luck and keep smiling!!!
2007-02-21 23:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are saying you want to love some body again.This means that you are not closed dead end on her.You don't like other girls because you haven't looked at enough of them.You don't beg for love you deserve it.Why is it that everyone loves the cute girl and that smart (mostly successful) guy.Make yourself such that people love you.Let me tell you no one likes a dispirited guy.Let me give you an option suppose your girl accepts you out of pity and not out of love or respect,would you be happy with that.It appears to me that she rejected you straight out because she thinks you are not good enough for her.Make her regret her decision and you can only do that by standing tall for yourself.
Where is the fire in you?Use your passion in a creative direction.
Have a goal in your life.For starters join a gym.You must be having responsibilities you can't shy way from them.
Remember a fighter doesn't gets ruled by the conditions he rules them.You lift yourself up and you would find that whatever happened happened for good.Surely you would find someone truly special.
2007-02-22 00:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by thepragmatist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the father he has the right to see and help raise the child. If you are afraid of him you need to file a protective, or stay away order with the court. Each city or state calls these things by different tems. If you want full custody you have to demonstrate that he is an unfit father, and no court will do that with giving him the chance to be a father. Even if yo get full custody he will most likely be allowed visitation. This could be supervised or not. If you refuse to let him see his child and he files a suit against you, you could lose custody, and be arrested for kidnapping. Parental rights is no joke. He has the right to see his child until a court says different. YOU NEED A LAWYER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-05-23 22:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh i know that feeling! it will be there for a few months but will reduce with time.
dont sit alone at home. if not a girl then hang out with boys. get into some activity.
exhaust yourself during the day so that you are sure to sleep during the night.
hey chill man! your life is precious and one single girl should not be enough to finish you. look at it positively, this gives u a chance to wait for a better girl!
2007-02-22 02:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear this but pls do not get the thought that one girl cheated u all girls are the same there are a lot of good one even around u ...see analyse i know ofcourse it is easy for me to say only u know the pain ...but u need to prove that u r a person worth it k ..i do not know wat exactly happened but change of place will give u some solace ...concentrate in your carrier pls ..that will heal u ...time is the best remedy my friend ..life is worth living pls know that...
2007-02-22 00:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened with me too, then one day i told my Mom about it,
she said don't try to forget someone, the act of trying to forget someone itself reminds u of them more and more. If her thoughts come, let it be, try to continue what ur doin. It will pass away soon.
Trust me it worked.
2007-02-25 05:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that your girlfriend has cheated you . so, you are not able to forget her. if you yourself had loved her, you might have forgotten her. YOu can forget her when you take revenge (don't think in negative sense) on her or until face any other love life.
2007-02-22 01:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by badri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't force yourself to fall in love again,it will happen when the time will come,just concentrate in your work or study.i think it can fresh your mind all time.no one knows what will happen,life is short so live it up with your heart content.
2007-02-22 00:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dighi_143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey u need to get out of this.....u just need to know why he/she left u....was it good enough reason to leave u? Just remember life doesn't end if we loose the person we love...if that person really loves he/she willl come back to u if not than PLEASE DON'T REGRET....MOVE ON.....STOP THINKING ABT YOUR PAST, IT WILL NOT HELP U......TRUST ME...U CAN BEGIN UR LIFE AGAIN
2007-02-22 10:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sandman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋