My girlfriend and I have just began a long distance relationship due to her taking a great job which is about 4 hours away. Money has been tight lately as both of us are transitioning to new jobs. The problem has come up as she isn't willing to travel to see me, yet she expects me to constantly go to her. She complains that money is too tight for her except that not only does she make quite a bit more than me, but every time I talk to her she is buying new furniture or a pots and pans set etc. luxuries she doesn't need.
Not only do I not feel like I am a priority in her life but I now have absolutely no desire to spend my hard earned money to travel and see someone who won't do the same for me.
Any Advice on the matter???
2007-02-21 21:58:31 · 2 answers · asked by 65Cobra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like she is much more interested in her career and making herself happy than being interested in you. I think her new career has given her a big head and she probably looks down on you just because you make less money. If she keeps buying things for herself and she's not willing to come and see you too, she's just not that into you anymore.
Sorry, but I'm being realistic. If it were me, I would end the relationship before she used me anymore.
2007-02-22 02:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Coach T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her she is not worth it
She is knows that she will always get her way and that should stop
Any relationship is about give and take and currently she is only taking not giving
2007-02-22 06:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋