I have really bad social anxiety and depression. It started because Im 5'2 with a small frame .. about 98 pounds..and people always tease me for it.
Im in a great relationship with my faince, he is so social though. He is a huge people person. It hurts so bad to see him stay home all the time just because I wont go anywhere.
Any Suggestions? Thanks..
2007-02-21 21:51:09 · 13 answers · asked by pinkheart042 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i only see him fri-sun and he is gone fri with his friends and sunday playing ball, so he goes out.
2007-02-21 21:59:25 · update #1
Make sure you're making him feel that he is loved by a "special someone".
2007-02-21 21:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by genius_06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For relationship saving, I think you are on the right track when you allow him to get out and about without you.
For relationship building and personal growth, you should know that social anxiety is often successfully treated with therapy. I know most people have a mental block about seeking professional help, but this is one disorder that is more easily treated then you think. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but the hardest part about getting help is that first step, walking into a therapist's office.
If you are serious about making life better for yourself and your fiance then get some help.
2007-02-22 06:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by laurie888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove the complex from your mind. Remember opposites attract. he is attracted to u maybe because u are petite and cute. Don't worry what others say, enjoy yourself, your love is with u, anxiety and depression may actually bring problems into your relation, so relax and be happy, enjoy yourself.
2007-02-22 05:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be in a mess, I had stage fright years ago, and I kept doing it over and over until now if you see me on a stage you will be amazed, I take the mike and move like nothing.
It's like when you buss on stage, it fright.
exorcise your inner demons and rise above this.
try a Chinese empowerment doctor, or try a wiccan person.
all the best.
2007-02-22 05:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by mercedez m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you have to accept that you are beautiful the way you are and you need some confidence so every once in a while go out with you boyfriend and sometimes let him go out and have some fun even if you are nt with him
2007-02-22 05:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must go somewhere together, but you must be the one who decide where to go. Go somewhere you'd like to go, go for a trip in an unknown place with very few population, get him to an hotel. You have to change your landscape. It will do good to both him and you.
2007-02-22 05:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by bemanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok now Im confused... alright **** all those who tease you.... Your beautiful in every way a woman should be....
Does he know how you feel? If not talk to him about it...
2007-02-22 05:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Shrink and lots of tablets.
2007-02-22 05:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go out. Let him be him and you need to be yourself. This is the essence of true love.
2007-02-22 06:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he is having fun and why dont you talk to your doctor re. your problems.lol
2007-02-22 06:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋