i know this question gets asked a lot but i do need help please
there is a guy friend of mine and we went out like once years ago but we stayed friends, havent acutally seen him a lot in a bout a year but recently we have been seeing each other quite a bit with our friends, but i catch him looking at me quite a lot but when i turn to him he doesnt turn away he just keeps staring at me, so i dont know if hes just doing it to annoy me, hes quite flirty with me but hes like that naturally (although he never used to be as flirty with me, he always was with my friends though). i do think im falling for him but i never judge people properly,
what do you think? honestly, please
thanks, xxx
2007-02-21 21:30:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't fall for that.
If your name has something to do with Tenerife, and if you're a Spaniard, I guess you're very familiar with Latin machismo. But then, even if your friend isn't Spanish or Latino, men are like that. They like to display their sexual appeal and test how far they can push it.
You, for your part, would do well to let him ask for you, if you like. Now if you really like him, I suggest you play along, act as if you're not interested in him. Perhaps his male ego deserves a little thrashing: it might signify a challenge, and might be new to him, unaccustomed as he may be with women not falling for him that easily. It might tease him and before long, you might interest him.
Shoving yourself or even bringing up the matter with him might send signals that you're a bit of a pushover, and easy to get, perhaps even cheap, which of course, you aren't.
If you want to find out his real feelings for you, shouldn't there be a third party who would know? If the signal is good, then maybe.
The sensible woman that you are, I have the hunch that you won't give yourself away just like that.
2007-02-21 21:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rommel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is he starting at you? Is it with a smile, with a frown, with a concentrated look?
If he's smiling at you when he's looking, smile back and then look away. If you look back again and he is still smiling at you then it may be a sign he likes you.
If he isn't smiling when he's looking at you then yes he could be trying to annoy you. In that situation I'd just give him a nod and a smile and carry on with talking with your friends. If he is trying to annoy you then he will soon get fed up if you don't respond in the way he wants.
If it is any worse than this then I would have a quick word with him. Start off by saying you noticed he's been staring at you all night. Is there some dirt on my face? That way you can let him know you are on to him without directly confronting him.
If it is because he likes you and just doesn't know how to approach the subject - as many men don't - this may be the icebreaker he is looking for.
Good luck
2007-02-22 05:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by ponygirlsarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probally likes you, due to the way he stares at you. But it is hard to teel just by how people gesture. If you really want to know you'll have to bite the bullet and ask him straight out. It may be eaiser to let him know that your havig feeligs for him first because then he won't feel so defensive when you ask him. Also, you really didn't say much about him to describe what he is like so it's hard for us to say what kind of a person he is or if we give you our support or not. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 05:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does fancy you and by all accounts he sounds quit young as you do, if he does then he is a strong person to be able to stare at you letting you know that he is looking at you, strange one this, I would say that he does like you, doesnt sound like he is playing any head games as such....
get him on his own and ask him, he IS your friend so you shoukld get an honest answer, hopefully, but I think he does like you, he may just be really forwrard and not realise it.
Good luck hun xx
2007-02-22 05:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you he will do the leg work. Let him ask. Sometimes to forceful of a girl can scare them away. They like that kind of power. They like to think they are in charge of the situation so let him ask you. Just wait until he does something.
2007-02-22 05:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you and he realises what a gem you are. Maybe he doesnt wanna spoil the friendship ut if you flirt back he might get the hint. Dont be too pushy and dont make it awkward. Relax, be yourself and let him do all the wooing not you.Only respond to his moves, dont make one without him starting.
2007-02-22 05:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation kinda and Im just going with the flow... just see where it leads I am with me and my mate I mean I only met him last year but we get on like a house on fire.... But still yknw.... Im just friends with him so yeah... leave it things as is and if something happens it happens
2007-02-22 05:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds quite hopeful. Just keep up the friendship and see where it leads. Don't try to force him into declaring his intentions.
2007-02-22 05:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Yeti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he's falling for you. And I also think that you should ask him and tell him the truth about how you're feeling for him.
Hope this helps dear and Good Luck.
2007-02-22 06:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him questions about the first time you went out, like does he regret it, and see what his reaction is to that.
Personaly i think he likes you x
2007-02-22 06:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋