right there is this guy that i know who i really fancy. he and i have known each other for nearly 5 years now and we are really good friends, but i am scared that if i ask him out and he says no then it will ruin our realationship which is really good just as friends. i always feel really close tohim and he makes me feel really special. what should i do?? i don't want to lose him but i so want us to be together... please reply... xx ((()))
2007-02-21 21:04:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and fr petes sake can people stop saying marry him becasue i am only 13!!!!!!!
2007-02-21 21:27:04 · update #1
It's quite rare a guy will be friends with a girl without wanting something else... so unless he's gay, ask him, im sure he'll say yes!
2007-02-21 21:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go for it as it is the only way you will know for sure how he feels about you and you can stop wondering. There is a chance he will say no so it's not risk free but worth the risk, and even if he says no a real friend will still stick around!
Good luck- go for it!! x
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2007-02-22 01:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO way that you are 'just friends' at the moment. I don't care what anyone says, guys and girls cannot be purely mates without feelings getting in the way!
He could like you already?
He's your 'mate' so already you don't have to try and impress him, he obviously likes you enough to spend time with you so why not just suggest spending more time together, doing different things, just the two of you?
You have nothing to lose, and it'll only become weird afterwards if you make it.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-21 21:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by laura b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awsk him lassy, you will regeret it if you do not ask him
Good luck,
Lets hope on this occasion he is like most guys and he is a friend to you for other reasons rather than just being a friend. I do have friends that are girls, so to basically answer the other comment up above- saying he is gay lol, im not an have a few girlfriends lol.
Good luck, get it off your chest and just ask him.
2007-02-21 21:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask him out, there is too much to lose if you do and it goes wrong. And if you are both right for one another, in time you will move closer towards each other and it will just happen. Dont force or push things. IF you get on so well, then chances are he has probably thought similiar things, so just wait until it happens, cause if he is interested, he will let you know and you will just feel it.
Goodluck x
2007-02-21 21:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he shown u in any way at all that he is interested in u at all? if he hasn't and u say u really fancy him, then u just gonna have to go for it. life is a risk, nothing ventured nothing gained.
ask him out and if he says no to u (which i doubt), then tell him that u value ur friendship and want to keep it. u may feel uncomfortable for a few days but after that u'll be fine.
u never know he may just be the right one for u!!!!!!!!
2007-02-21 21:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the plumge and ask him out.
The best partnerships are built on friendship
You would hate yourself if 20 years downd the road he said he felt the same about you but was too affraid to say anything.
2007-02-21 21:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Debi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he likes you the same way. I was in the same situation where I like this girl who we were good friends for years. I never said anything and to this day I regret it. So go for it and ask him, otherwise you will be doing the "what ifs" and might regret it.
2007-03-01 16:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT ask him out!
Look at your situation this way:
He's had five years to get to know you and all your amazing qualities and yet he's convinced that you're not the one for him.
Asking him out might lead to some random sexual encounter, but it will not lead to love. He doesn't like you like that or he would have gathered the gum shun to ask out already.
2007-02-21 21:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by snowcoveredtree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur only 13, why dont u just concentrate on your books instead? books, not boys. thats the way to go. ask this question again when ur already 18.
2007-03-01 20:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋