what would you do if your man is always in trouble with the law but you love him so much you cant leave him?
2007-02-21 20:11:57 · 14 answers · asked by coconaut 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you really love him then you should be with him..... however you need to look at why he is getting into trouble and what is causing him to do that. If he is getting in trouble for violent crimes then you may want to try to break it off. You really need to look at your own well being and see if his actions are affecting you. If he is interfering with your own well being then you need to leave him. If you cant do that then try to get him some help for him. If you can get him the help he needs then it will be better for you and him. He has to want the help in order for it to work. Good Luck and if you need more help just ask.
2007-02-21 20:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about my own personal well-being and think about how my goals match with what my boyfriend's goals are.
One of my goals in life--to NOT ever be arrested. That does NOT match with your boyfriend.
I really don't have time for issues like that...not to mention that he is going to have problems getting income (legally) if he has a record.
I understand that you may love him, but love yourself more and rise above the bullshit. If he loves you, he should want to be a better man for you.
2007-02-22 04:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him so much that you would visit him in jail every week and have no real life to talk about? Move on, let the hurt die down a bit and then create your future.
2007-02-22 04:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by shes_apples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to cut the crap his life is worth more than spending it in prison if he doesnt listen tell him that your not gonna sit and watch him throw it away and walk away dont talk to him anymore until he comes to his senses if he doesnt then you know he loves being a badass loner than being a stand up guy with a girlfriend plus you dont wanna sit around waiting for him to get outta jail for the rest of your life when you could find a good man who doesnt act like that
2007-02-22 04:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refer him to professional help. He gets into trouble for some reason and it isn't good. If he didn't go I would cut him out of my life until he did.
2007-02-22 04:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Enjoying Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do business with a bail bondsman who offers frequent flyer miles in the hopes that one day I would have the good sense to get as far away from them as I could
2007-02-22 04:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself what kind of future you have.if you marry and have children will you ever see him will he always be in and out of prison.if thats the best you want for yourself its a sad life
2007-02-22 04:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he's doing, but if it's not anything horrible I would say just stick with him and encourage him not to do the wrong thing.
2007-02-22 04:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by kahaluiboi808 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd have "doormat" tattooed on my forehead.
2007-02-22 04:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek therapy.
2007-02-22 04:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋