i feel like there is nothing more to live for. My mom got her own new daughter from adoption center and she was living with her and she listen to her more than me and i hate my adopted sister so much. She want everything in my family. My dad got his own family, he wont care about my family anymore. My boyfriend is good but if i die, it wont make his life different, we are just together for 3 months.
i wanna die
2007-02-21 19:59:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pls!!!!!!11
those who die...they r not FIGHTERS!!!!!!!!!1
so be a FIGHTER.........n love ur SINGle life which god has fgiven u.......
any probs...discuss with me......i b ur frnd 2 insist u.....
hope u never think of Dieing again!!!!!11111
2007-02-21 20:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! You should not die. You'll get through this hard time. Mom's spending way more time with the "new" daughter and that's making you feel less important. You are important!! Sounds like your mom has a lot of love to give. Remember when she loved you so much? She still loves you just the same, you just don't see it. Ask your mom if she loves you, and I'm positive she will say yes!! If you are living with your mom, and I think you are, she would be completely devasated to hear you want to die. My heart broke when I read your question.
You don't want to die, you want to live knowing you are important, valuable and special. Well you are important, valuable and special girl. There's lots to live for sweetie. Right now, you don't like the whole story, but maybe next week things will be better.
If you learn to like your new sister, that can be great you know. I never had a sister and always wanted one. So lucky you!! Hang in there kiddo, you can like your sister one day. Not today, but maybe tomorow? You can at least try right? Try to like her. I bet you will find something about her you will like.
Okay, stick around a while, kiddo. Show your question to your mom or an adult, and they can help you too ;)
2007-02-21 20:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by daughter_helping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can die if u want to! But what if u die? Life still goes on, yr step sister still gets what she wants or even much more. Yr current bf may not be worthy of but waht happen that's another great guy down the road that is actually yr heavenly choice who is abt to destine to meet u in near future? Does u get what u want in life yet?
To die is a solution, yes to a certain extend but is not getting any good to u. U live is to die, my teaching taught me so, so whats the hurry? U will someday!
But while u r alive, why not makes the best out of it? U need a change in yr life, so get up and make that change and don't give up. The mess in yr family was not created by u and why shld u die for their sake. U shld move on and seek for the real goals in yr life and live the fullest out of it.
Honestly, if u hv the courage to die, u hv the courage to make anything possible! Isn't it? Cheers. Yr life will never be the same anymore. :-)
2007-02-21 20:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't kill yourself for something like this.
It's not worth it, you are going to make many people(including your step sister and mum) felt guilty if you die.
Forget about your dad,since your life doesn't depend on him anymore,prove to everyone that you can be as strong as anyone can be.
As for your mum and step sister,don't judge them so quickly,I mean,if I were to get adopted by another family,I would expect to get more attention from my new family too. It's not entirely your sister's fault.
Yes, you were with you boyfriend for 3 months, but just as you said,he was good,isn't that more than enough? The amount of time is not the matter, it's the relationship that matters.
Just, don't do anyhting stupid. You are the only one that could make your life worth and interesting!
2007-02-22 17:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I have been in your positions many times.. you are you.. not for your mother.. not for you father.. not for your bf.. you are you because you were strong enough to make it into this world.. because there is so much for you in store.. things for you to discover, things for you to enjoy.
Your mom has her issues, so does your dad.. I am sure they love you.. they may have a new daughter.. whom your mom maybe giving extra attention thinking she is more in need than you are.. and your father.. he may not really know how to deal with two families at a time. your bf.. it will be very hard for him to get over his gf dying.. and he being unable to have helped her.. maybe follow him forever that he may have done something to change that.
Get into things that make you happy.. things that make you feel good.. you want to die because you do not like the way you feel right now.. but soon you will be able to do all that you want to do.. do not let others spoil it for you... live life for you.. not for them.. or not because of them. Is not worth it to waste such a beautiful gift we have because of a few who seem not to appreciate it.
2007-02-21 20:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and kill yourself. that way you will never know what the future holds for you or the kids that you would have had and the family that you would make. Who knows you could have had such a wonder future to look forward to but you would rather throw it away for a moment of hurt. Go for it since the only one you are thinking about is yourself when there are plenty of others that could be affected by your actions, those that you know now and those that you would have met in the future.
2007-02-21 20:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would that want to make you hurt yourself ?
you should know family is just support not what you live for they are there as guidence to help you get to whereyou find what you live for???i have no family at all and im only 25 i can still think of thousands of reasons to live ....also if you did hurt yourself your boyfriend and family might not handle it very well and soon feel like they have nothing to live for
2007-02-21 20:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by nrrs_chrstphr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..don't do that...don't ever think of doing that....it's not worth it..trust me..I kno. I'll tell you..I lost a friend...is a he actually..he killed himself for no reason. Until now I keep blaming myself for not stopping him for doing the stupid act. I'm sure there will be something in store fo you in this life...try to talk to your mom..maybe she didn't realise her mistakes. She just got a new adopted daughter...maybe she wants to know more about her. Don't ever give up in life!! Don't do it!!
2007-02-21 20:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nurul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybodiy dies eventually. Why rush?
You have an adopted sister now. You have an obligation to Annoy The Pooh Out Of Her. How can you do that if you are dead ?
2007-02-21 20:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I vote no, don't die.
Sure your life sucks terribly right now... but so what? everyone's does at some point. All the crap will eventually go away.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
2007-02-21 20:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by snowcoveredtree 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing in this world so bad that dieing is the answer. its a permanent solution to temporary problem!!! talk to your family tell them how you feel. no one wants to see you die not me not anyone.
2007-02-21 20:07:14 · answer #11 · answered by higherground_09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋