i met him 2 times with group of friends everyhting was fine between us he used to call me everyday, i dont know things have changed from yesterday, he didnt receive my call after 3 hours he called me saying he was busy in work(even one of his office collegue told me the same that nowadays office load is high) he didnt talked me me very well, after 5 min he said he will call after sometime and he didnt, day before yesterday he called he was working then he text 'what are you doing"i text him 'i was thinking about you,we will chat once he is finished with his office work.....he replied 'just leave it, wassup'............what does that mean am i feeling very negative or is something wrong with him? has he stopped liking me? i messaged him twice on man his status was busy and he got offline without messaging me i am confused what to do?????please help
2007-02-21 19:52:10 · 11 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him some space. Quit calling and texting him. Let him contact you.
2007-02-21 19:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is confused and not sure if he likes you okay but do not be letting this upset you - I think he simply doesnt know you enough and is not sure whether he should give it a chance or not - you obviously really like this guy like mad - but why are you pinning all your hopes on him if he is not being as nice as you are back?? I would ignore this guy asap - do something with your life - even go to the gym to take ur mind off him and to stop urself txting him - let him run after you for a change - if you are too nice to a guy, he will lose interest more quickly and he will think you are predictable. So I say look at the other fishies in the sea in the meantime - after all you deserve love and respect and for now he is barely giving you respect!
just leave it..means I am not sure I want a relation..and I can't take your nice behaviour..I say ignore him - if he txts or rings ignore and then answer 2 days later - treat him mean keep him keen! at least in this case..and even look and see if there is any one better than him in the meantime ;-) keep your options open - dont feel negative - just see what else is out there - who needs a guy who just takes you for granted?> anyway if you play my idea along it may work out in your favour - good luck and dont be getting yourself this upset over him please!!
2007-02-22 04:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Babs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if i'm not mistaken you've only met him twice? i don't want to be mean but sounds like he doesn't really have feelings for you. the way that you are constantly thinking about him and seems to always wanna talk to him is a bit desperate.
don't feel like i'm being mean. i just don't want you to get hurt like i did. i went through a similar situation with some guy like a year ago. i was dumb, naive and head over heels for him. goodness, i find myself wanting to talk to him all the time. then suddenly he stops calling, and never reply back to any of my emails. once he picked up the phone and told me to wait, then he passed the phone to his friend and he never came back.
what i learned is that i deserve better and you do too. this guy that you are trying to talk to isn't even man enough to tell you that he's not interested in you. he has to avoid you, this just show how immature he is. you deserve better and you should just forget this jerk.
^_^
2007-02-22 04:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by SMILES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to step back... and wait for his move... and when he message you.. please do not be like "oh waiting for you to call me.. ", " was thinking of you .. ", "I am so desperate here waiting for you call night and day.. " because that is such a downer..
If you are too needy.. kiss that relationship goodbye.. and others to come too.. Find yourself something to get busy with.. read, hobby, knitting.. something to get your mind off what the guy is doing that is not calling you back.. or you calling him too much. Men appreciate a woman that has a life of her own too.
2007-02-22 04:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you call him when he is not at work. I think his message to you was for get about my office work whats up. Thats all your thinking into it to much take it easy.lol
2007-02-22 04:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best i can see from what you have said he is pulling away from you and may be seeing someone else, but that is only one option, being a guy i that is what i would say he is doing, but he may just be really busy with work
2007-02-22 03:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stalking the man already! You have met him only twice, and already he has to account for his whereabouts and his every moment to you? No wonder he's running for the hills.
2007-02-22 03:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry... play hard to get... dont chase him. it seems like you are coming off as desperate... which isnt good. so just play it cool and dont worry about it. ok well i hope everything works out :D
2007-02-22 03:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by fidowido99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get and be fly everytime u see him.
2007-02-22 04:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Honee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better give hi time. he will realy busy. don't worry. he will call you if he realy miss you. don't disturb him.
2007-02-22 03:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋