Was here yesterday asking bout my fiance and this girl that keeps calling him tho he assured me that she does not. Yes, I did what I should not have done and went through his call records that showed she had called. Well another peak revealed he had deleted her number from the list. Does that mean he has something to hide? We are practically living together tho we've both kept our homes. I've been thinking maybe he needs some space to rethink what he really wants. Maybe its coz we're always together or something. What do you guys think? To give space or not to?
2007-02-21 19:42:57 · 7 answers · asked by Heaven's Child 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, he and this girl almost started something before he met me. He says she stopped calling and that's why he didn't bother telling me about her. Then I discovered a msg in his cell sent folder saying "take care of yourself too." I confronted him and said he sent it after she sent him one to wish us good luck. He says he asked her to stop calling but why has she not? Why did have to delete her number from the call records? They work together and that freaks me out coz I don't know what else goes on. I am going MAD!!!
2007-02-21 19:59:08 · update #1
If you feel he is lying to you than give him his space.lol
2007-02-21 19:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you trust you're boyfriend, why are you going through his phone? Personally, if my girlfriend ever went through my phone or e-mail or anything, it would be grounds for a break-up. I'm not saying that I would break-up with her, but I'd have to do some serious thinking.
Second, even if you did go through his phone and he's denying calls from this other woman, I'd talk to him about it. Be an adult and confront him. He'll be upset that you don't trust him, but at least give him a chance to explain himself.
As far as giving him space, it might be the right choice. Like I said, have a conversation with him and find out what he wants.
2007-02-22 03:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh heh... some men think women are so gullible.
The boy is hidding something from you... you found something out.. now what you do ?
Give him space ? sure... tell him he can have all the time in the world to think about it.. and dump him... set your rules.. he wants you.. he loves you ? then he will make it all possible for you not to leave him. If he is unsure.. then think very hard on reasons why to stay with him. Are you unsure? if by now he still is unsure of what he wants.. then he will never be sure.
The "give him space" idea was invented by "players" - don't be played girl!... lay down your peace and walk out of this situation before it really hurts you.
Don't be afraid to assert yourself. And if you lose him in the process.. then what did you really lose ?
2007-02-22 03:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he deleted her number for a reason- I would have deleted it, not because I was trying to hide something, but because I wanted to move on from that whole mess of the situation.
2007-02-22 03:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Psychgirl35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, gotta wonder why he deleted the number and that, maybe she has feelings for him and he isn't interested which is why it all seems so oneside (from what you have said), i.e her calling him and him deleting her number. Though if you are uncomfortable with it, maybe you should discuss it with him.
2007-02-22 04:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by OziGirl_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for trouble? Because now you have some.
Leave the whole thing alone and just hug and kiss him. He's with you right? Not her. Cut the baloney.
2007-02-22 03:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Misery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, give him space. Enough space to be with her, so he can stop going around behind your back.
2007-02-22 03:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋