Me and my fiance know each other for six years now. Lately I want to hear him telling me How much he loves me and I feel insecure, not that he give me reason to. I've told him how I feel and he say's i'm too sensitive. When we go to sleep we usally hold each other and the past two day's we don't, I asked him Why, he told me because it's too hot! Am I sensitive or should I be worried?
2007-02-21 19:32:35 · 12 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it is too sensitive. My partner and I have been together for four years and sometimes I feel the way you have described. Sometimes men don't know what women need until we tell them. When I am feeling neglected I let my partner know that I need some love and need a hug or more :)
2007-02-21 19:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are insecure (as it sounds like you are!) is for a reason.. If you have to ask a person if they love you.. then there is a problem. How long have you been engaged ? sleeping holding each other last for a while.. but is not something that happens every single day! -
I would lay down on the asking so much and start listening to body language.. and try to relax... you maybe causing the problem in the first place if you are nagging too much..
Listen to his body language and actions and then you decide if he loves you or not.. no need to ask that kind of question.
2007-02-22 03:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had the same problem but on his side, it may be a little of both, because you are too sensitive or getting to close, he may be starting to feel trapped so he may start to pull away, on the other hand you could have something to worry about, back off a little bit and give him just a little breathing room and see how he goes from there, if he continues to pull away, he may being cheating or just not feel the same about you as he has before
2007-02-22 03:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six years. . .
Things are starting to get stale, same stuff, different day. Nothing exciting is happening. So you are wondering where the romance went. That's where the insecurity is coming from.
You and he are in a rut. Time to try out new things, go somewhere different, do something different. Inject some new life in your old relationship.
2007-02-22 03:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is where is counts talk, talk. "Communication" some people after a while need their space and have trouble telling their mate their using to much sweetener. Again though have a serious talk. Good Luck.
2007-02-22 03:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you sleep with and after he replied that you are hot means the he is not quite enough to satisfy you or meet your requirements. You understand his reply which not match to your immaginations. Do not feel yourself sensitive it is quite natural and enjoy with him.
2007-02-22 03:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by shahida69pk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r over sensitive , i think hes too stressed up at work. Try to understand him more.
2007-02-22 03:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by kiddIE - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your being to sensitive in the sence that you want to know if he feels the same way you do.......and what did u mean by its too hot?
2007-02-22 03:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by quiksilverdude123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the window and turn on your beamers ...give him
a call on the cell and invite him to come to your room.
Now ask ..am I too hot?
2007-02-22 03:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by debbi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, as of now, i feel the same...my boyfriend changed a lot lately and his sweetness had gone. one day, he told me that he needs time for himself and focus more on his career. he just left for Turkey...
work it out especially if you love him...good luck!
2007-02-22 03:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by meoow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋