In Reference to the guy only question that asks about a males opinion on a slightly over wiehgt woman. so im curious are we that shallow as humans to take someone on face value?
2007-02-21 19:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by disturbedxxcalmness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More Info, Sorry Carzy Cat thought you were a guy asking that kind of opinion . your heading kind of annoyed me so i thought i would use the same kind of question directed at females, to Dj Kevin, im sorry i dont judge people on looks or weight although if i am honest my personal preferance is a male who is slightly *soft*, i like rubbing a belly of sorts, so no it wasnt about my preferences.
2007-02-21 19:43:48 · update #1
i honestly don't care. i like bigger men. always have. one of my favourite actors was a big fella, not particularly handsome. his name was dan blocker. my hubby is a big man as well. theres just something about them that steams my kettle!
in answer to your question, yes, we are that shallow. most people look at the package and if they don't like what they see, they won't even make an effort to be nice, let alone friendly. and they are missing out.
my hubby has a mate who is quite shy, not particularly attractive, a little pudge around the middle and only about 5'9". the girls don't even give him a tumble and its a shame as he really is a nice man, very considerate and lots of fun.
i just keep telling him he'll find his mate and be patient. he always says he thinks women are fools 'cause those men who aren't drop dead gorgeous try a lot harder than the rest.
2007-02-21 19:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the better to lean on and not get poked by bones;) but jokes apart weight would be last thing to consider!! Wot about if he'z funny or not, respects u, cares et al more essentials... And I've alwayz thought majority of sensible women worry more about how the guy makes them feel than how he looks!
2007-02-21 19:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by LibraCrazyVirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are superficial if you not only would consider not liking a guy for being SLIGHTLY overweight, and have to ask strangers because you cannot figure this out on your own. sorry to be so direct, but your healine really bugs me. by the way, i am quite slim and muscular if you are thinking i am a fellow fattie. show some constitutuion and get to know the person
2007-02-21 19:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dj Kevin G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband has gained weight... and I still love him and am as attracted to him as always. Nothing hsa changed that, but mind you, he is moderately over weight. Not the 300lb. variety.
Though, if that were the case... I would be concerned for his health and mentall state to begin with. If he had no intention of correcting it, then I would become less attracted to him. Anyone who does not see reason to keep themselves healthy is not attractive, period.
2007-02-21 19:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bearess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA Actually,...I'm a female..,,lol I wanted a guy's opinion on
that. But, ya know, personally....I like it when a guy has a litttle
more weight, thery'e like teddy bears. I don't wanna sleep on a
rock. But, that's just me. I like my men meaty....lol
2007-02-21 19:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u know why co's its not a matter he fat or what the most important is u like him. Not only u look at his outside apperance but we are talking about his inside attitude. i believed what they love is blind.
2007-02-21 19:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.. one of my favorite things is rubbing a nice belly.
2007-02-21 19:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Samara 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my answer is no. but it depend how he close to you or understanding between each other. if that guy very close and have a innocent heart we couldn't tell that to his face know.
2007-02-21 19:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter at all.
My boy is more than twice my weight.
And yes i love him.
2007-02-21 23:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by silverLEMON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still like him
2007-02-21 19:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋