Would u still be interested. If she was really nice and was decent
looking....let's say, she's considered attractive..would it put u off??
Would her weight bother u or not ?? Be honest....
2007-02-21 19:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am female..lol I just wanted a guys
feelings on it. Girls are welcome too...LOL
2007-02-21 19:54:22 · update #1
I've met girls I'd die for who were a little overweight. One in particular comes to mind who had the face of an angel. I couldn't give a rat's behind about her weight. I found her sexy and gorgeous. Pounds come and go, it's stupid and shallow to let it get it in the way.
The cat's awesome by the way...is she single?lol
2007-02-21 19:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would depend how much overweight. This is not shallowness speaking, but I am not a large person myself. I eat right and exercise regularly. What would we have in common?
If she was a little overweight, but was still attractive enough and had good style, then I may give her a second look. On the other hand, if she was nasty, needs to mix in a bar of soap or makes me look like Jack Sprat, then forget about it.
2007-02-21 19:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course fat is unattractive but it shouldn't be the sole deciding factor on whether or not you choose to pursue somebody. We all want the perfect person with the killer body but that's a fantasy. In reality people can be a little overweight but thier personality and character are hot! If it's just weight, find out how she feels about herself and have really active, outside dates..you can even go to the gym and promote better eating habits by cooking for her and taking her to healthy restaurants...all the while letting you know you accept her for who she's is but want to promote a healthy lifestyle for both of you.
2007-02-21 19:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You're lucky to have found someone that's really nice/decent like that. What if you pass her by and get a thinner girl, then she gets fat? Or you do? Come on now! LOL!
Seriously, when it comes down to it, a best friend is way better than a best body. You can love that body just like any other body.
2007-02-21 20:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter what other guys thought. If you're going to ask what other people think about being with someone who is a little overweight then you shouldn't be with her because it seems like you're ashamed of what she looks like. You have to go with what you prefer in a girl because you shouldn't be with someone you're not 100% happy with because she'll just end up getting hurt.
2007-02-21 19:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. If you guys click and she is decent looking than just go for it. She can always lose weight.
2007-02-21 19:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by General Vic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the size shouldnt matter at all!!!! or you say lets take a walk and go walking secretly help her loose weight and instad of gettin junk food get low fat ice cream or some thing
2007-02-21 19:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind a few extra pounds if she is very nice and not a slob. I wouldn't date someone obese at all.
2007-02-21 19:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF It bothers you now it will always bother you. So don't even give it a second thought .
2007-02-21 19:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by cininni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it put you off???
Watch Shrek 2, somehow it taught me a lesson about people
2007-02-21 19:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbie Luv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋