I don't wanna scare her.... she's free with me, she'll tell me, but I don't wanna pressure her.
I wanna know how deep her feelings are towards me.... how do I ask her? I can't expect her to just tell me all the thoughts she has about me n her, right?
2007-02-21 19:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by Praveen C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are trying to get her into bed...hey! That is soooo wrong...are you a real man?!!!!!
I get this strange feeling that you are not being that honest here...
what you need to do, is NOT to push her...let her be who she is...but, at the same time...just be with her..and enjoy this lovely person...and do kind things for her...show her love and honesty, trust,and most of all, respect...that is what women need from a guy...when they don't have that...it becomes sooo personal...it affects them...in a lot more ways than one....(for one thing, it can stop a woman from trusting you or any other man..and that isn't what you want....either with her, or from another woman, if you two don't stay together....)Turst is VERY important..and Respect is as well! Women absolutely adore a man who respects her feelings...it isn't great knowing that your guy has absolutely no respect for you,and doesn't care or trust you enough,and or isn't honest with you at all.....
being pushy isn't going to do it...you just have to talk and be with her..and shower her with affection and love..and ask her...gently...what she thinks about you,...if she thinks about you when you and she are doing other things, separately...because women do think about their guys when they are off with their friends..and or are alone...
just take your time..and be gentle with her...and you will get your answers! But, remember don't get pushy...!
2007-02-21 19:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know how you feel, if she feels the same way she will let you know, but dont go in too deep if you aint been together, its a bad thing when you try to pick out a wedding cake on the first date, figuritivly speaking
2007-02-22 03:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Terry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually ask her what she thinks about the relationship.
It does depend on how long you've been with her though. If you have only been with her for a week then wait a few months. :)
Bless your heart
2007-02-22 03:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't, ask her to say them" have her write them down. that way you can do the same thing and it will last longer and don;t bug her give her a couple of days..
2007-02-22 03:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by jane h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your feelings about her. then ask what did she feels about you.
2007-02-22 03:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her! what is going on? nobody can talk these days?
2007-02-22 03:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can see her eye
2007-02-22 03:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to swallow
2007-02-22 03:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋