for the pasts three years, i work hard to reduce my 210 kg weight.untill now, i have loss about 130 kg. but i still do not happy with it. i don't have somebody in my life as a special one. And its make my life always down
2007-02-21 18:55:01 · 7 answers · asked by eeja_yokata 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Real beauty comes from the heart and soul not weight or looks.
The more confident you feel about yourself and the more beautiful you feel inside the more you feel beautiful on the outside.
You should'nt feel down...I'm sure someday someone special will come along and see your real beauty..you don't want to share your life with someone that is shallow and cares only about outward beauty anyway.
2007-02-21 19:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by chefzilla65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi !!!
Did you say that you don't have anybody special in your life and that makes you feel down!!!
Look, there are people out there that they have a very special person all the time at their side and not because of that, they are
all happy. But the difference with people is that even if they are not happy ,they take care of themselves!!!
You have to take care of yourself regardless if you have some one special in you life or not!!! Who's more special than you???
NO ONE!!!
You do need a lot of self esteem, but no one is going to give it to you, or there is NOT store that sell it either!!!
So get up eat your veggies, start walking a lot!!! stop eating all kinds of sweets, breads, sugar, salt, soda, butter, fatty foods, fast foods!!! Avoid dairy products.
Fill yourself up with chicken broth and wheat crackers, vegetables, all you can eat, specially greens, a lot of water, at least 8 glasses a day, fruits, yogurt.
Listen to music, while walking,read a book for relaxation, speak to friends and family, and pray!!!! The only one you really need is JESUS THE LORD. AMEN
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-02-21 19:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone out there will like you for who you are and you need to like yourself for who you are too....the weight thing no matter how skinny you get you still will want to be more skinny..then once you reach that goal you'll find something else to pick on about yourself...no one is perfect and quit stressing over this and live your life because life is too short
2007-02-21 19:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being brown, short, underweight, and don't speak good English living in a third-world country.
Go out, see the world, it'll give you better perspective. "Count your blessing not your troubles" - Dale Carnergie.
or read motivational books.
2007-02-21 19:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by abuadam the malay bloke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by make sure of ur slef 100%
2007-02-21 19:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by moon14 a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to spell and use correct grammar might be a start.
2007-02-21 19:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by toymod 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be yourself??!!!!Don't be other person else!From there people will see how beautiful you are?
2007-02-21 19:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋