i am still hunting for a job in the field of media itz been almost 1 and a half year. i joined a job and to get this i had to leave my boyfren and stay in a diff city all alone. today my bf is not in india and i am going back to the same city i left earlier, my bf wants to take me along with him but my parents dont want me to leave this city thinking i may get a job but i am very tried and frustraed with the serach plz help me . my bf says if i dont come back he may leave me and my parents say that now that i am takinh the decision i should not ask them for any advice now.
2007-02-21 18:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by blessed damozel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to answer because of cultural differences but I will try.
1st... this is your "boyfriend" ... when is the "fiance" or "husband" going to come by ? If he is not committed to you to marry you before you guys leave for another city... then what says he will be once you get there. Avoid finding yourself in another city.. all alone again!
2nd. I say you concentrate on finding a job in a city where you would be comfortable at and take it from there... do not make decisions based on what other people want from you.
2007-02-21 18:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you bf should make a life time commitment with you. I'm talking of marriage then he can take you along with him. I'm sure your parents will not object if you are his wife not gf. Don't rush to make a decision which you will regret later.
2007-02-21 19:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kache 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what's best for *you* - it's your career and future. Your family should be willing to support your efforts and help you out (within reason). If your BF wants to drag you around for his convenience instead of letting you make your own life, he doesn't respect or care about you very much, and you should dump him.
2007-02-21 19:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋