Is it a sin to have anal or oral sex?

Question

If it is, is there a verse from the Bible that supports that?

Answer 1

If you consider anal and oral sex as natrual acts then the following verse probably would not apply.

26Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. 27In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.

28Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not to be done. 29They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity.

Answer 2

As long as it's within the confines of marriage, I'm with Rexella on this one. It's a sin and a shame not to! The marital bed is a Garden of Eden, no holds barred, hehe!

Miss Momma: How can anal between husband and wife be a homosexual act? It would be homosexual if it were between two people of the same gender. But husband and wife are male and female, so nothing they do with one another can ever be homo, not even anal.

Answer 3

Holy Varny show us some proof of these verses or stop saying such things- you have absoutely no proof to back yourself up.

No, there are no verses to back this up. I asked my mum and dad a who are devout Christians---they said that it is not a sin, no form of sex is a sin if performed in the sanctity of marriage. However many people including myself do not wait until marriage to have sex etc, and I don not feel like I have sinned.

**To the comment that women don't enjoy oral sex. Well I absolutely love giving it to my partner and it is the most incredible feeling in the world having a guy perform it on me.

Do not feel pressured by other people telling you that it is a sin, Christians are not meant to judge, they are meant to be wise and show you guidance- my parents have always done this. They knew that when I was a young teenager my boyfriend and I were having oral sex and they were fine with that, it is a great way to prevent pregnancies and to explore your sexuality and feelings.

Unless someone can actually provide you with a scripture to prove this (there isn't one). Just please be aware that there are some people who it is obvious do not belong to mainstream churches and are brainwashed and in a cult who are writing answers here, try not to listen to them-- that would be a sin!!!!

Just do what you are comfortable with and what you are happy to do. :)

Answer 4

Not if it's with the one you're married to. "The marriage bed is undefiled" - Paul. Other than that, it's a matter of health & safety in regards to anal sex. It depends on whether or not it was designed for two-way traffic. Either way, pray about it. If one or both of you aren't comfortable with it then find something else. Don't sin against your conscience. Other than that, enjoy! Read the Song Of Solomon, a pretty racey dialog between two married lovers.

Answer 5

Yes, it is sinful. I don't have exact Bible quotes, but people who have anal sex are called "Soddomites", and God calls this practice "an abomination". As for oral sex, I do not remember anything in the Bible about it, but the Bible does say that "spilling your seed" anywhere except where it belongs falls short of God's glory.
Sex in any form is a sin if it is not between one man married to one woman.
Get hold of a book called Strong's Bible Concordance, and you will be able to find anything you need in the Bible.
God bless you in your search for the truth.

Answer 6

Either is a sinful and unnatural act. I don't need to be able to quote specific Scripture, passage and verse to know right from wrong and either of those disgusting practices is wrong, wrong, wrong! Sex serves a purpose and that purpose is procreation. Sex is not about enjoyment or entertainment and treating it as such is an abomination. You cannot separate the two. Both are examples of the crime of Sodomy so you cannot say that one is alright and the other is not and in or out of marriage it is just as bad. Those women who said that either is alright under any circumstances should be ashamed of yourselves. By promoting these acts you are no different than the whores who are in the pornographic movies that encourage the degradation of all women. If a husband asks his wife to do either she should have him charged with attempted Sodomy in a court of law and prosecuted. Maybe then men would learn to control their unnatural and illegal perversions.

Answer 7

Oral sex, also known as “cunnilingus” when performed on females and “fellatio” when performed on males, is not mentioned in the Bible. There are two primary questions that are asked in regards to oral sex: (1) “is oral sex a sin if done before marriage?” and (2) “is oral sex a sin if done within a marriage?” While the Bible does not specifically address either question, there are definitely biblical principles that apply.

Is oral sex a sin if done before or outside of marriage?
This question is becoming increasingly common as young people are told that “oral sex is not really sex,” and as oral sex is promoted as a safer (no risk of pregnancy, less risk of sexually transmitted diseases*) alternative to sexual intercourse. What does the Bible say? Ephesians 5:3 declares, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity...because these are improper for God's holy people.” The biblical definition of “immorality” is “any form of sexual contact outside of marriage” (1 Corinthians 7:2). According to Hebrews 13:4, only the “marriage bed” is pure and undefiled. According to the Bible, sex is to be reserved for marriage. Period. So, yes, oral sex is a sin if done before or outside of marriage.

Is oral sex a sin if done within a marriage?
Many, perhaps most, Christian married couples have had this question. What makes it difficult is the fact that the Bible nowhere says what is allowed or disallowed sexually between a husband and wife, other than, of course, any sexual activity that involves another person (swapping, threesomes, etc.) or that involves lusting after another person (pornography). Outside of these two restrictions, the principle of “mutual consent” would seem to apply (1 Corinthians 7:5). While this text specifically deals with abstaining from sex/frequency of sex, “mutual consent” is a good concept to apply universally in regards to sex within marriage. Whatever is done, it should be fully agreed on between the husband and his wife. Neither spouse should be forced or coerced into doing something he/she is not completely comfortable with. If oral sex is done within the confines of marriage and in the spirit of mutual consent, there is not a biblical case for declaring it to be a sin.

In summary, oral sex before marriage is absolutely a sin. It is immoral. It is in no sense a biblically acceptable alternative to sexual intercourse for unmarried couples. Within the confines of marriage, oral sex is free from sin as long as there is mutual consent.

*While oral sex is safer than sexual intercourse in regards to sexually transmitted diseases, it is definitely not safe. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, HIV/AIDS, and other STDs can be transmitted through oral sex.

http://www.gotquestions.org/Bible-oral-sex.html

Answer 8

According to Islam its a sin. Bible well I have no idea.
But I feel its insignificant. sex without marriage is a sin in bible but you could hardly find people following bible in sex related matters.

Answer 9

Oral sex is ok inside of marriage. Song of Solomon is very detailed about it in poetic form.
Anal sex is not right, as it is a form of homosexuality and unnatural. Romans chapter one.

Any sex or sexual acts outside of marriage is sin and is mentioned through out scripture as fornication.

Answer 10

oral is fine between a married couple, anal (sodomy) is NOT . I will get you some bible verses if you'd like, email me for them.