what if v promised the priests that v will raise our kids as catholics ,coz v want to get married in the church too ....is the church rules very strict i mean will they contact us later after v have kids asking us y v didnt raise our kids as catholics??/pls help im tensed abt this whole situation ,my mom is not allowing us to marry if v dont get married in the church ......
2007-02-21 17:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's very hard to change a religion you were born with, a mother always wants the best for her children..
I never heard that someone would contact you from church to ask how are you raising your kids..
"He who promises more than he is able to perform, is false to himself; and he who does not perform what he has promised, is a traitor to his friend."
2007-02-21 18:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by meemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the Catholic Church does not check up on you but you know your family will..... I am Catholic, went to Catholic schools but havent done my confirmation and the Church isnt after me, only my mom = O
As for the marriage part, only one of you have to be Catholic, but it depends on the Church. Im from L.A. and I know at the Cathedral they will marry you if one is Catholic. Do expect to go to classes and counseling but this is a requirement for everyone. They want to make sure you are aware of what you are doing.
2007-02-21 18:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Veronica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm catholic and my husband is a free-thinker. We were married in a catholic church. As spoken with the priest, my husband has to understand my duties as a catholic, such as going to church, etc. As a couple, we should try our utmost best to raise our kids as catholics. Whether or not, they actually believe in it ... furthermore, the relationship between husband and wife is the key and foremost importance.
2007-02-21 20:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by an_an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question. Have a marriage in a church under false pretenses just to make your mom happy? To have a religion should be something that you have embraced, made a comittment to.. not something that is forced upon you... is not something you are born.. is not your race. If you do not think you will embrace this religion for the rest of your life and raise your kids in it.. then why keep lingering in it?
To lie to your church is to lie to that which you hold sacred.. not a good example for your husband to be... if you do not feel committed to this religion.. then just move on.
2007-02-21 18:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mom married an Atheist & all they had to do was agree to raise the kids in the church. They don't come back and check. If they did Mom would be in trouble. I am the only Christian(Protestant), Sister is Wicca, both brothers just don't care. Godd luck to you!
2007-02-21 18:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am Hindu too. Religion is trash. Don't believe in religion , believe in GOD. Because GOD likes in humanity & truth but not religion.
Marry the person U like in register office but not in any church or Hindu temple because they are all idiots. They separate humanity.
Be a brave person & broad minded. OK. Don't care for any person but believe in GOD=truth because truth never deceives any one.After marriage every thing will be set. Don't worry.And don't keep any promise & get into trouble.
If u are not brave enough u may loose ur love & it is up to U. I am like ur brother. And I am open to boost ur courage. U may IM me or u can mail me at naren_july@yahoo.com. OK.
Last but not least brought up ur kids with brave, truth & human beings but not religion oriented. Believe in GOD but not religion. GOD bless U.
Bye. Ur brother.
2007-02-21 18:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Naren_RocksU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him marry him out side the church,because church rules don't agree for your marriage with a Hindu. don't make false promises.
2007-02-21 17:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by nightingale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin and cousin in regulation are a Hindu-Cathloic copule and that they are the main the main suitable option and happest human beings I even have ever popular They agreed to a Hindu wedding ceremony so as that what they have yet with Catholic/Christian wedding ceremony components further in ... like having a minister making a speech and the replace of rings. as nicely as having bridesmaids and groomsman and all that. It became a very superb wedding ceremony. attempt a distinctive church or attempt to contemplate getting married in a superb hotel or united states of america club. they're forcing Christianity and that's no longer maximum appropriate!!! Or have 2 weddings! that could desire to be superb! yet in view that the two one in each of you appreciate each others relegions ... once you have young little ones attempt to have them study and appreciate the two and different religions as nicely Attend church amenities on Sundays and getting in contact in church actives yet nevertheless have them renowned Hinduism and the Hindu traditions ... they seem to be a heat and alluring faith. in case you reside by utilising a Hindu temple have them additionally attend a service there or have a in abode temple like many Hindus have and have them respects the Gods and Goddess and additionally attend Hindu fairs in case you reside in a huge Hindu community like garba and raas. additionally some years in the past i found out they have Hindu camps for little ones and young human beings which seem rather relaxing and a superb thank you to evaluation ... they could unquestionably attend those there are a number of common procedures to flow approximately this yet I wager you like your little ones to be nicely-rounded and appreciate information ideas and different varieties of communities and human beings so attempt to do the main suitable you could and attempt to coach them the two and different religions and renowned the two and different religions as nicely. Congrats on the marriage sturdy luck with something of you existence i'm hoping I even have helped you out some
2016-09-29 11:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The power of love
Every impossible is possible
Every possible be impossible.
Its better your guy be catolic so your family can still hold their face.Its not nice to build on ruined.
If he can't, you better take me as husband coz when I'm in love , you are the master.
2007-02-21 18:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by laziifrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I really need to know this answer too...sorry I know I am not giving you an answer....
I don't suppose he could convert? I am Christian too, and marriage has never really popped in my head, but I love brown girls, so I guess I might need the answer to this eventually...
Good Luck!!
2007-02-21 17:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋