I went out with my bf everything was ok then I asked him some question bcs there was silence and he went crazy bcs he said my questions where stupid ... so we got in a fight and i went home in tears. Why did he do that even if they were stupid questions I wanted to talk to him... and he just criticized me ,, the thing is that its starting to be every time I go out with him. The same thing happens? I don't know what does he want and why does he do that to me he knows its hurting me and i put up with it?? So is there something else he's trying to do like dump me but he's doing it in another way..
2007-02-21 17:42:39 · 11 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are annoying.
2007-02-21 17:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that he wants to dump you, if he did he would just do so. I think that he would even be suprised if you did so. What must be happening is that he gets upset about something else and he takes it on you. It's a sign that the is too confident and too comfortable and you should not let him. And I think that you are afraid that he wants to dump you and he can sense your fear and this is why he takes advantage of it and takes his anger on you. Don't be afraid to loose him by fighting back because if you don't draw the line, he'll be walking all over you and that can't be reversed.
2007-02-22 01:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know if all guys are all the same, but i know in my case... silence isn't always a bad thing. if he's like me, he'd rather just spend quality time with you (like cuddle with you or something along those lines) rather than answer questions that were asked simply due to the fact that nothing had been said in a while.
in summary, my advice to you would be to try and not ask small, no offense but seemingly pointless, when there is silence. instead, just put your arm around him or kiss him on the cheek.
2007-02-22 01:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by tinyjackblack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what questions were you asking him? Some questions could definately upset a person. If they were just normal questions that would be really crazy to get upset about then I would consider breaking up with him. Does he have something real stressful going on in his life right now? That could cause him to overreact to things....
2007-02-22 01:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's done this for a number of times, then obviously, he's trying to get rid of you. that's from a man point of view. most likely, he's in another relationship,sorry, but the problem with us men is that we are very weak, it's rather he told you outright, it'd be lesser hurting.
ask yourself questions like, what don't i do that i used to do when he fell inlove with me? and, try not to change how you treated him.
anyway, don't stress yourself too much, if he doesnt change, then, let things run by themselves for now, most likely, he'll leave you, be warned! i wish you the best. pol
2007-02-22 02:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by pol m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him now! If he hurts you, he doesn't like you. Learn this lesson now and forever Amen. If he keeps acting like he likes you by going out with you and calling you, he doing these things only to please himself. Maybe wants a date, but he doesn't care if it's you, or some other girl. Maybe he doesn't want to be alone, so he has you around, but he doesn't like you. It's all about him. Dump him now!
2007-02-22 01:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are afraid to do the first step cause they're cowards. I think he wants to dump you but hasn't got enough courage to tell you about his feelings. I think he acts like that to enforce you to dump him cause he can't do it.
2007-02-22 01:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ jolie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure about some thing try to talk to him and find out why he is being like that. if it turns out in argument then you need to leave him because when people get all antsy when u ask them questions it usually means that there hiding something
2007-02-22 01:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by toby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a relationship that is going nowhere, I don't know how old you are, but I would assume that his actions are a sign that he is seeing someone else/ INTERESTED in seeing someone else, or THINKING aout seeing someone else.
Either way............dump him................find a new man who can make you happy and NOT cheat on you. You are worth it girl.
2007-02-22 01:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what was the ? maybe he just wants some space try talking it out with him
2007-02-22 01:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by keopci 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him first
2007-02-22 01:45:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋