Look, I am so pretty and I get attention from guys ALL the time.. I'm not conceited, I just really want you to know how it is.. But, my boyfriend of 3 years looks at girls ALL the time.. It gets so annoying!! I mean I know it's in guys nature, but I feel really sad when he does it.. Why am I feeling this way.. Also, there is this guy that is totally head over heels for me and he is FINE!! My guy isn't even fine at all.. He's OKAY.. But, yah this guy is totally gorgeous and he and I want to be together but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..
2007-02-21 17:34:37 · 16 answers · asked by Chloe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion it is very disrespectful for your date of 1 month or 20 years to look at other women when with you. IT IS NOT IN GUYS' NATURE! When will the world get over the "men are stallions - women are s-luts" mentality??? What is in our nature is the need for respect and exclusivity in love. And you deserve that as much as anyone else out there. I have a good friend who does that to his girl and even though he's loyal, it pisses me like hell. But he thinks it's good for the woman to feel a little unsure of her man, it keeps her in check and in love. I don't know, maybe with some women it does work, but I'm sure that's not always the case. Maybe your guy is doing the same, trying to make sure you stay on your toes and interested?
2007-02-21 18:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems that your boyfriend wants other girls and you want another guy. Maybe it's break-up time.
I don't think there's anything wrong w/ you being upset that he's looking at other girls. For me it depends on the type of looking he's doing. If it's looking cause that's what tends to happen when U have functioning eyes then no big deal. If he's really checking them out like he was checking U out b4 he asked you out, yeah...that right there would piss me off.
2007-02-21 17:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your totally and fully INSECURE! that's why it drives you crazy because you think that your better than he is and you can not handle the fact that he is not your little lap dog and that YES MAYBE HE THINKS THERE IS SOMEONE CUTER THAN YOU! and if he didn't treat you that way how would you treat him? i say sounds like you need to be with the gorgeous guy and maybe the two of you being as superficial and transparently conceded as you sound could destroy each others self esteem and maybe come down a notch or two on the holier than thou attitude. i personally think that your bf is too good for you rather than vice versa
2007-02-24 08:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by fearthis1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is looking at other girls in your presence, then he's totally disrespecting you. One thing is to discreetly stare because yes, some women are impossible to not notice though if it's obvious to you and hurts you then he's been a total jerk. You should go ahead and date the other guy that you like and dump your bf. Why would you be concerned about his feelings when he's not concerned about yours?
2007-02-21 17:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Haha... looks like you've already made up your mind. You want the new guy and after 3 years, your guy is used to you and have taken you for granted and starts checking out other chicks
2007-02-21 17:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, leave that loser alone, date the cutie but take it slow, and don't EVER think that it's OK for your bf to look at other women in front of you. It is normal to glance at attractive people, but if he does it very obviously in your face, that's blatant disrespect and you're too pretty to accept that. Good luck with the new guy!
2007-02-21 17:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Meeeeee! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well your bf is hurting you by looking at other girls...so dump him. He will never change and it sounds like this really bothers you...and you have pretty much made your mind up about this other guy...go for it!
2007-02-21 17:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys look - and so do girls. But in this case I think he could just be insecure with himself and so in doing this, trying to make you feel insecure as well! And it appears to be working... just make as if you don't even notice it.
2007-02-21 17:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to hurt the boyfriend that looks at women in front of you?? Because he has you brainwashed that "its what guys do?" Are you out of your freakin skull????????????
God, women are gullible.
2007-02-21 17:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
looks like he isnt the only one checking other people out. sounds like u r just as bad. if not worse
2007-02-21 18:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by holdnnmyown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋