I really really like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me back we are sort of dating but not official or anyting he talked at one point our band we would have at our wedding and meeting my parents. He is 26 and I am 20 is that to big of an age difference?
2007-02-21 17:20:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not really.. the age doesnt matter its what is in the heart
2007-02-21 17:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 and 26 isn't that bad but there are things that you all can't do together and that can wreak havoc on a relationship. He can go to bars and clubs that you can't go to and you guys should be at different points in life.
And if he hasn't met your parents yet, marriage should be far from both of your minds. He could just be trying to get into your pants so be careful. Older guys often manipulate young girls.
2007-02-22 01:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not so far apart as much as so far ahead
He hasn't met your parents yet and he's talking about what band he would want for the wedding?
What are you guys going to take about on the second date?
2007-02-22 01:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na thats not a big age gap. also guys mature later than girls so having 4-6 years age gap will be good as ur maturity levels will be the same.
But just make the things official if u r serious about this guy. tomorrow u shudn't get hurt if he says that he was not serious and u r assuming he is serious.
2007-02-22 01:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think it is. Im 17 and my bf is 23. We have been going out for nearly 6 months now. Go for it. Dont throw away something that could be so great just cause your afarid. Im so glad my bf didnt let me give up on us like I havent wanted to so many times. We love each other and that is something I feel so blessed to have cause some people search their whole lives for it and here I am so young and Ive alredy foung it. Go for it and if its meant to work out it will. Goodluck!!!!
P.S Dont let other poeple choose for u do what u want 2
2007-02-22 01:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about the age difference. its the commitment issue here.
he's not even committed to you and he's talking about wedding? be super careful about this guy. he's may turn out to be a cheater.
see, i believe guys at 26 will know what a girl wants... to paint a beautiful and blissful picture in front of her, then get her do the things he want and then dump her... u nvr know.
if he is keen on u, pls get him to meet ur parents. otherwise, forget it.
2007-02-22 01:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, watch out for guys who talk a good game but don't make anything "official." He's saying a lot of great stuff, but it doesn't seem right. Be on alert and put away the wedding magazines.
2007-02-22 01:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both should know where you stand in this relationship. its like a sort of mutual understanding that you two are in. so i guess, if he talks about things like marriage, then he should make it official and propose to you what really is his real intention. age doesnt matter, its the compatibility and the intense of love that you two has for each other. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-22 01:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by ilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...i don't think so. If you ask me, guys are usually so much more immature than girls, you ALMOST need to marry someone older than you for the maturity levels to balance out. Hope all ends well for ya!
2007-02-22 01:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be it far apart in age or geographical location....
love and/or lust knows no boundaries, and age is just a number.
2007-02-22 09:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋