me and my ex broke up more than 2 months ago for a range of reasons. the main being that she needed some time and space to deal with her parents divorce and cope with her family nearly losing their house....she said she didnt want to put me through all of that....we broke up also because in recent months leading up to our parting we had been fighting quite a bit! the break up was clean and understanding. i still see her at work and we still talk alot and get along alot better now than when we were going out. Although she keeps asking me how many girls ive been with since we broke up and when i dont tell her she goes and finds out off other people...she did see me kiss someone else at a club but it didnt seem to bother her on the night. im not sure if she is hiding her feelings or not? i know i still have feelings for her....is it a possibility that we could get back together some time down the track?
2007-02-21 17:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by ausbloke1987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might have a chance but you will never know unless you talk to her-----it is better to have danced and fallen than to never have danced
2007-02-21 17:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep shes keeping tabs on you to see if you are dating or talking to other girls just so when she goes out with other guys she want feel bad and plus if whoever she is dating or talking to does not work out like she expect she can all ways go running back to you. Your like a back burner or back wash she can push you to the side and back and when things are not going her way she can go back and pick you up and you will still e waiting right there for her. Plus she wants to know what your doing so that way she knows that no matter what she does you will still be waiting for her to take you back, go out you are single now put your interest into other ladies and who cares if she knows she is not telling you what she is doing is she? Move on with your life do not sit there and allow her to play these mind games with you find you a nice lady who will appreciate you for who you are, if she was going thru a lot I don't see why that would be a reason to break up with you anyway cause at least she could of had you right by her side for motivation, and to lift her up in those times of needs you know what I am saying. But hey she let you go so do as you please and just know that no matter who she is going out with she will never find another guy like you.
2007-02-21 17:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this but - no. She's done with you sweetie. You know how after you break up with someone you still don't want them to be with anyone else? Thats all she's doing. Keeping you on a string. Cut the string and find a girl that will give you 100%.
2007-02-21 17:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the main question you should ask yourself is if you would want to get back in a relationship with her. you said that she saw you kiss another girl she could be acting out in jealousy. she might still like you but you have to be careful about if you think that you can have strong enough relationship with her. you may still like her but you should move on if you are already going out with other girls.
2007-02-21 17:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by *beautifulbabe* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't just sit around and wait for her to come around to you. You shouldn't feel bad about dating other girls. If she wanted you, she would come back. IT's none of her business anymore what you do,,,,,,,,,,so who cares what she thinks? Well, I guess if you wanted to sit and wait for her to make up her mind you could, but that wouldn't be much fun.
2007-02-21 17:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know until you try
2007-02-21 17:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋