lost my only baby girl in delivery, the cord was around her neck & could not be saved.thank god i have my three boys &my husband to save me. i started having panick attacks.my husband is military and now after 15yrs.his daughter is wanting only daddy no one else
2007-02-21 16:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by cindy d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, I am so very sorry for your loss. To carry a child full term and to lose them during delivery is a blow that no mother (or dad) should ever have to go thru! Please talk to your doctor about your panic attacks and possible post-partum depression. It makes sense that you would be feeling anxious and depressed simply from what you've been thru. I am assuming that your husband has a child from another relationship? It makes sense that, as a 15 year old, his daughter would be wanting a relationship with him that she doesn't have to share with another woman, especially a step mom. Perhaps it makes the loss of your own daughter even more poignant than ever? Please talk to someone about your grief and see if there is a support group near where you live. Compassionate Friends or Sharing Parents are the groups I'm familiar with here in California. Both offer support and friendship and compassion for mother's like yourself. Please take care!
2007-02-21 17:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart! I can only imagine how you must be feeling, that was a terrible thing for you to have to go through.
My suggestion to you would be to go and see your family doctor, or even you OBGYN, and see if there is an anti-depressant that might help you lighten the panic attacks.
Deal with one thing at a time, and try to remain calm....try to lessen your anxiety. The 15 year old, I no clue as to help with that situation, because I'm not sure whats going on except what you stated. But at 15, she'd have to understand that she's not a baby anymore, and she can't necessarily have her way. That he has more family than just her...but he can be shared.
2007-02-21 17:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
My best friend lost twins when they were delivered too early.She goes to their gravesite often and takes flowers.
No one but another mother who has lost a child can understand.
I hope you will seek counselling or a group of women who have gone through similiar pains as this.No one else can relate as those who've "been there",and trust me,you're not the only one.
2007-02-21 17:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss. Would seeing a therapist for your heart felt loss and panick attacks help? Possibly help with your stepdaugher also. I'm sure you are under a lot of stress with your husband in the military. Please, talk with someone. Maybe a friend, family member, Pastor, Therapist, hotline. You will be in my thoughts tonight.
2007-02-21 17:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of mothers who dont have babies at all and console urself.i wish to narrate a real incident here so that u may feel how good ur.
i had a friend who was a anasesthetist doctor.he lost his mentally retarded sister 5 yrs ago and he was now the only son to his parents.his marriage was fixed and he died in a car crash 1wk ago.just imagine the agony of his parents
2007-02-21 17:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by dorai p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that your baby girl did not make it that is soo sad I pray for you and your family god bless and good luck may be god will give you a second chance to have another little angle baby
2007-02-21 16:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by shakiraalejandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry...
Time will turn up for u.
one day, U will be best mom on earth..
2007-02-21 17:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Arun P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋