Ok, my question is: If you already have someone who loves you and cares about you, why do you get scared and run away from it? Why do you have to find someone else when you already have what you are looking for?
How come the person you already have isn't good enough, if you loved them then something was right. true? So why give up on it and throw it all away because your scared and then go look for it again, so you can run from it again? Why can't you be happy with the person that you are with, if they love you and care about you, shouldn't that be good enough? I just recently went threw this and i feel like im not good enough, i'm not enough. It's like my love and care for him didn't matter. So if you could please just tell me why when you already love someone, you have to go look for something that you already have. It would help alot & thanks.
2007-02-21 16:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry that you're going through this girl. You are good enough and don't ever let a man tell you otherwise. Truth of the matter is this, if a man has a girl that loves and cares for him and he loves and cares for her, he would not run.
The only man that will run is a man who does not have the same feeling as the girl has for him. So in your case, I hate to say this but... he wasn't looking for a long term thing with you. Another reason is that he doesn't want something serious right now, and took it as an excuse to get out of this one. Don't try to offer him something not serious because you are only fooling yourself. Be strong, stick with your girlies , heal and move on from there
2007-02-21 16:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't cheat, but I have gotten scared and run. For me it was a combination of things that may not apply to other guys.
In this case, I hated myself. No really. I hated myself competely and utterly. I convinced myself that I would screw everything up, and she'd realize how much of a waste of time I was. So i dumped her.
2007-02-22 00:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you are scared to tell him how you feel. And your scared hes not going to say it back but in reality he probobly feels the same way hes just waiting for you to say it.
2007-02-22 00:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by TLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound right to me, unless for some reason he got cold feet.(wish i had someone who loved me and cares) he is a lucky man ,doesn't sound right, something is wrong. sorry i don't have a easy answer. good luck.
2007-02-22 01:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by skip3800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with you. We don't love ourselves enough to love someone else
2007-02-22 00:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by woleff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet heart, I have the same problem, it isn't just men. it is that so many people play games, and when it becomes something real they freak out.
2007-02-22 00:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋