Truth: I've had five relationships. One was an 18 year marriage. Two were serious relationships with GFs (one lasted 4 years, the other 3 1/2 years). Two were "whirlwind romances" which easily could've developed into serious relationships.One lasted 6 months, the other 1 1/2 years. All failed due to dishonesty on the part of the ladies I was involved with. So are all women dishonest or have I cornered the market for getting involved with the wrong women? BTW, all 5 relationships were initiated by the women. All 5 women came from different backrounds, etc. What say ye?
2007-02-21 16:47:06 · 4 answers · asked by Silver Fox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in the same boat, I still believe. but Don't go looking for it, they always just happen.
2007-02-21 16:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it strange how we often attract the same types of people, over and over again?
My advice is to go for someone that you would never originally have gone for. Someone who perhaps you don't believe is truly your type. It might give you a different perspective about women and a chance to change your beliefs that all women are dishonest, which is very far from the truth.
2007-02-21 16:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why you keep attracting the same type of person into your life. Usually, there is something in your subconscious mind that needs to be realized and worked on. If you have close friend(s) to talk to, do journaling,and if I were you, I would talk to a therapist. If you say you give no credict to this subconscious stuff, then you really need to see a therapist. Make sure you see a good one, lots of bad ones out there.
2007-02-21 17:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont look, it will fall in your lap when you least expect it. Probably through an activity you are involved in?
2007-02-21 16:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋