my life sucks, what can i do?

Question

i got a g/f although she doesnt seem to interested in me. like when we kiss, its like i kiss her, she never kisses me you no what i mean? anyway my job sux *** so i quit, i live in a small town, nothing to do at all. im only 22. im so bored with life. is getting married and having kids the only thing to do? i got no money to go anywhere either. i dunno im just so bored.any ideas on how i can make life more interesting? oh and i got 0 friends now cause they all are whipped by there g/f's or they are into drugs now.

Answer 1

Go back to school and educate yourself so you can find a good job and move somewhere else. There is more to the world than your small town and your druggie friends. Make up your mind to have a better life.

Answer 2

One day you will laugh about all this.

22 is usually a hard year to cope with. You're not 18 and you ain't 25, yet you are a man.

Life is gonna suck no matter how you look at it.
We are only on this earth for a limited time.

Don't give up the ship yet. Because your girl doesn't kiss you the way you want her to means nothing.
Maybe she doesn't want to lick your lips because of your defeatest attitude.
No chick wants to be with a guy who is bored with life.
Man, if I was in your small town, I'd smack the sh** out of you.

OK. Try a new hobby. First, if you feel your girl is not feeling you, put her on hold.

Hobby #1. try cooking. I come from a hispanic family and I was taught how to make a meal @ your age. Look at all the turkeys with thier own cooking shows. Baammm

Hobby #2. try a littke music. Piano, guitar, flute, some sort of musical training. start with a few lessons from an instructor.
You can write songs for your girl and if she is not impressed, write a song for another.

Hobby #3. How about some art. Paint, draw, sculpt. The art will bring out what is inside you. May help to discover yourself. Oh yeah photography is a good hooby too.

Try getting involved in some sort of trade.
Plumbing, electictrial, Journalism, Tele-communications.
Learn a trade that will help you get out of the small town rut.

Do something, other than cry.

Remember, even though I come from the big city, small town America also constitutes this country.

Amen

Answer 3

I lived in a small town and all my friends were involved in drugs too. So one day I made a decision that I was going to go back to school. Luckily I graduated with a scholarship, and I went back to school for 3 months and got a job at a hospital. Now I make good money, I met my fiance, and i'm living life to its fullest.

Identify the part you want to change in your life, like where you live, your girlfriend, your job, etc etc and focus on small things you can change about it. If you girlfriend doesnt kiss you, dump her. Don't keep her around because you're bored and lonely. Get a job and get the heck out of town or somewhere else. Small towns are like a vicious circle, they just find some way to suck you back in. Good luck

Answer 4

Ohhh Honey, get up off your *** and get an education.

You quit your job because it boring, but you think that maybe getting married and having kids is the only thing left to do? I say you'd better rethink that strategy, a job really comes in handy if you want either of those...unless your going to be to bored to work then, and allow the state to pay for your children and your life.

There is too much out there in this big old world to sit in one small town and be bored. You have no excuse, find a trade school, a college and belly up. Get an education, travel, find something that interest you, instead of sitting in a small town whining about being bored.

Got any hobbies? Turn it into a small profitable business, but don't sit there on your *** whining.....make something of yourself.

Answer 5

Find another job its the best way to meet people keep you busy and make some money at the same time.Life has its ups and downs just when it seems most bleak things turn around. Keep positive life's an adventure. You might wanna think about the relationship your in too. If she doesn't seem to feel the same way move on so one that does has a open door invite to your heart. Good luck.

Answer 6

What can you do? Why not learn to play a musical instrument, and sing? Once you have acquired some skill, join or form a band. No, getting married and having children is not the only thing to do. You can be a musician or an artist, and not have to put up mediocrity all your life. Just remember to keep your head on straight, and don't let the drugs pull you down either.

Answer 7

Everybody have a different life, it all depend on how you look at it. and no, your life is not sucks, to you it's sucks, but there is thing that you haven't look at yet, the other side of your life. what i mean by that is, you're 22 years old, you can still go to college and get a degree that will make your seem more interesting. Then that is where you will find the other side of your life.

Answer 8

In this life, you will be exactly as happy as you choose to be. You have chosen to be unhappy, so you are. You find things that reinforce your decision to be unhappy. If you choose to be happy, you will find things in your life to reinforce that happiness.

Assuming that your family doesn't have the money to help you establish yourself in another town, I would suggest that you join the military. That will get you out into the world, and solve your boredom as well as give you experience in a career field.

But, the military will be just as miserable as where you are now if you take along the same attitude.

Answer 9

Get in school. Further your education in order to obtain a better job. Borrow money from the government and pay for your school fee. Once you have completed, you'll enjoy your 30 to 45 dollars an hour and kindly pay back the government. Life will be much better.

Answer 10

Get a small part time job, save money, go to college, do something that intrests you and just make the best of what is given to you. Only you can change how you live.