A female friend of mine asked a buddy of mine at the game shop we all hang out in for help on her Yugioh deck that she plays with in her spare time. The buddy said this to her "I can't help you with your deck there,last time I helped someone with there deck,they beat me. That was my g/f." He says this,but then winds up helping another friend of mine (male) with his deck,it's card for card just like my buddy's deck. My female friend is more confused,hurt,rejected about being lied to.
What is it called when people do this ? And why ? What can I do to help out,that this wasn't on purpose ?
2007-02-21 16:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
My female friend is 29,with depression and BPD (borderline personality disorder) taking Effexior 150mgs once a day and twice a day Risperdal 1mg (strong stuff). Going to therapy as we speak.
My 1st male friend that I mentioned here is in his 20's.
The 2nd male friend that I mentioned here is 20.
2007-02-21 16:45:09 · update #1
Making a deck is a pain unless it's yours. unless you are really really good friends, he probably didn't want to spend the time.
What a fun way to spend the time- balancing out a deck you wont' play.
I would chalk it up to him not wanting to do it, pure and simple. She is a female, and since he already has a GF, cannot be of a romantic interest- therefore is harder to be a "bud" ....and his "Bud" wanted help, so it was harder for him to say "no".
It's a guy- "He's my Bro" thing.
He just doesnt' want to invest the time in it
2007-02-21 16:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by There you are∫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a mental illness. It is not called anything but rudeness. The first male obviously had some kind of a hangup about helping that girl but felt comfortable playing with the second male and did not realize or care that doing so in her presence was an insult. He may not have a very high opinion of girls or that girl in particular or is intimidated by girls. He also does not seem to have an awareness that that action was a slap in the face to the girl and is not mannerly.
He could at least apologize to her and you might point this out to him. It probably was an indication the girls presence did not register very high in his awareness. Since she was your girlfriend he might not have wanted to seem to you to "cut in", It may not have been on purpose; that would be hard to determine.
2007-02-21 18:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is shallow . get over it and go on. that is the way some people are. Let it inspire you not hurt you. teach you to bee kind and helpful to others.
sounds like he is a pain anyway.
With friends like that who needs enemies!
2007-02-25 15:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hullo
a hypocrisy attitude i suppose!?
still lots of people try to avoid a person with mental disorder,which is a social stigma due to ignorance in mental health concept.
Dr solo
2007-02-21 16:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by baghdadcatcash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thge guy is shallow and insincere and afraid and immature
2007-02-21 17:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shallow!!!!!!!!!! what a jerk.
2007-02-26 14:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by J-Dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋