Guys, have you ever taken a fat girl out on a pity date? Why did you do it? Have you ever approched a girl (no matter the size) thinking she would agree to go out with you (or do other things with you...not necessarily sex) because you thought she would be desperate to be with someone?
2007-02-21 16:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know of someone who has gone through this and I was curious as to how many guys actually think like this or if it's the vain few.
2007-02-21 16:02:34 · update #1
I understand there are guys who like fat girls. I’m talking about guys who talk to fat girls (overweight, not a little roll of something) who have low self-esteem and little confidence because they think they will get something out of it.
2007-02-21 16:34:04 · update #2
I think it is incredibly rude not only to do - but even to pose this question. If you only find attraction based on looks - then I really pity you!
2007-02-21 16:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the "I'm not outgoing" excuse of not joining a club is the only pathetic thing I see. Get over it. Go somewhere and don't do anything. There is usually a couple of crazy outgoing people who will include you anyway. If it doesn't happen the first few times, screw it, keep trying. That's what I do. Also, I think you should give up on looking. I found that I find the coolest people when I'm not looking for them. I found the Love of My Life three months after an awful breakup where I decided I wasn't going to go out with anyone for a long time. I stopped looking, and he came to me. If you keep worrying about it, you'll be that crazy desperate guy who can only get girls through anime porn. Seriously think about just chilling. Do what you do, build up your esteem, have fun with the gaming things you do, and someone will turn up. That's my recommended strategy. I think you should try it. What have you to lose?
2016-05-23 22:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "fat" I just hope that you mean fat as in very overweight and unhealthy and not just with a tiny little fat roll or something.
I went on a date with a guy once who was fat ( and that is so not a turn on for me) just because my friend asked me to becuase he was really attracted to me, it was her boyfriends mate- I would never do it again though, it was too obvious that I just wasn't interested.
But as someone else did mention some guys do like fat girls.
2007-02-21 16:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never date a girl, any girl, out of pity. That is a terrible reason to take a girl on a date. If she was fat and I liked her, I would ask her out, but never out of pity. An no, I have never assumed that a girl would have to accept an offer out of desperation. Even with my current girlfriend... before we were dating, we both knew that we liked each other, but I was still terrified out of my mind to ask her out.
2007-02-21 16:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by feral_black_gryphon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not,some guys prefer bigger women and find them more attractive...I know lots of skinny guys that prefer bigger women.My boyfriend of 6 years was very big.To me he was sexy just the same.If this is you you're talking about,hang out with some "confident" fat girls who like what they have and their attitude will rub off on you.I say embrace yourself and work with what you got,alot of people like fat girls and guys.Just know you're sexy regardless of size.There will be some jerks,but as with any preference,it's simply preference person to person.All ya need is one.
2007-02-21 16:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so horrible. what that guy above said about running.
Who do you know, the guy that took someone out for pity, or the chick that got a date out of pity.
2007-02-21 16:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guys here are immature and none will be honest. Some of them are nerds and geeks anyway and don't have room to talk and would be lucky if any girl went on a date with them period.
2007-02-21 16:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once I was pleasant with a fat girl when I really should have told her off based upon what she had done, but that's about it. Everything else you mention I have never done.
2007-02-21 16:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date anymore, but I can truely say that some of the nicest girls I ever met(personality, traits, skills) were the
fat ones. I often wonder what could have been...
2007-02-21 16:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Uncle rvk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually thought about it and done it but when I got know her I was surprised Yous to think it was what was on the outside but believe its whats on the inside that realy matters "she changed my heart"!
2007-02-21 16:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by anthonylopesrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋