I like this guy and I really want to tell him that I do. It's just that I've been rejected so many times. Well actually I wasn't rejected. I told the guy and he just didn't really respond. That has been happening ever since I started telling guys I liked them. Please give me advice, especially those who have had a guy before!
2007-02-21 15:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by Desiree H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I don't think it matters who does the asking out. I've been in your position before and I know where you are coming from, and I've actually just come to this realization. If it was meant to be, then it doesn't matter who does the asking out. If you pursue him, he will go for it if he is interested. If not, then he wont, right? I guess for me, what holds me back, is the fear of being rejected. I feel better knowing that it's more ME that holds back, if I was out there asking guys out and getting nowhere, I'd probably be more unhappy. But I say go for it, because in reality, if you don't go for it, he may never either, and if you want it, go try to get it! You never know right?
2007-02-21 15:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by TinydancerE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well because girls do not tell a guy that they like them! it's pretty simple. girls SHOW, not TELL. you show the guy you like him by what you do - staying around, hanging out with him with your friends, sitting in front or near him in lunch tables, asking him stuff like how did you do in your exam or your work. stuff like that tells a guy indirectly that you like him. you dont have to tell a guy directly, because he will feel pressured. same with asking a guy out. you DONT ask a guy out. you make the guy FEEL that you want to go out with him. how? you can suggest, hey i think that movie is great. have you watched it? i havent too. THEN STOP THERE. HE GETS IT. if he doesn't respond positively then he's probably not ready to go out with you yet. but dont insist on asking him out. this would lower his respect for you. he knows it's his responsibility to ask the girl out. don't try to be the guy. be the girl.
2007-02-21 16:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by J.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation too. I am very attracted to someone, but I was taught that you should let the man come to you. I want to be honest with him on how I feel. I'm just afraid that I am taking his kindness for something more. I just scared.
2007-02-21 16:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by enchanting beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn`t but if it takes to long for him to ask you. you get the courage and ask him. don`t tell him you like him keep it a secret.if he knows, its way to much for him .give it some time he`ll come around. he will think your weird hes just not ready he needs some time to know you. if he likes you ,you might be able to tell if he does.watch for signs.
2007-02-21 16:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by majorbabeprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋