My girl has male friends that she swares nothing is goning on im insucure is her statement I say are relationship is not that good lets work on our stuff first......
2007-02-21 15:47:23 · 24 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have to believe that everyone is their on person. You have to trust a person to love them. If your girl invite you around the guys then there is no need for you to be insecure. Trust her until she give you reason not to. A lot of time we let the relationship before guide the next and that not good because each relationship will be different. Just because one person didn't treat us right. We should always heal from one relationship before entering another one.
2007-02-21 16:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by kool aid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you are a little insecure that happens my boyfriend says he doesnt have a problem with it and then he freaks the moment imma go to the movies with my bestfriend from preschool lol well you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel but at the same time give her space to breathe a girl needs her girl time with the girls and her guy time with the guys just as friends if yall dont have trust then what is the point? just talk it out or it will never work but remember yall need your space. good luck hope it all works out for you!
2007-02-21 15:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they can. Just because one person is male and the other female doesn't mean they "want" each other. You should be able to trust your partner enough to know that her male friends are just friends. If you can't trust her, you can't have a good relationship. You should be able to have female friends as well. Jealousy is one of the quickest ways to ruin a relationship.
2007-02-21 15:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course they can, gender is irrelevant to friendship. My best friend of 16 years is a single guy, my husband has no problem with it. Try not to be so insecure, a lot of girls prefer male friends in part because they don't tend to have the hang-ups and insecurities girls do...
A relationship cannot exist without trust.
2007-02-21 15:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend should be able to have male friends and you should be able to trust her with that. If you do not believe her when she says that nothing is going on then maybe she is showing signs when you are around her. Does she flirt with these guys when you are around? Does she talk bout them a lot?
Maybe you should talk to her about this and tell her how you feel.
2007-02-21 16:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha! Sometimes you need a guy friend to talk to about things you can't talk to a girl friend about and vice versa! Believe me, if she really loves you and you love and trust her then you shouldn't be jealous or worried that she has guy friends! If, on the other hand, she starts going out with them or looses interest in you then you'll have something to worry about but for now take it in stride.
You didn't state whether or not you have any girl friends?
2007-02-21 16:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by lilbit48vmb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course she can. Can you have female friends? Of course.
Are there times that you or her might be attracted to your opposite sex friends? Yes, there may be, but that is human nature. It is whether someone acts upon their feelings, or not. If they are mature, they will not be acting on those temporary feelings.
You need to work on your self confidence. After all, your girl picked you to be with, didn't she? Yes, in order to make your relationship good, you both need to work on it. It doesn't mean that you and her are supposed to forgo all contact with other people.
Peace & take care,
debm
2007-02-21 15:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by dam_9191 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's important for her to have other friends besides just you. do not try and control what friends she can hang out with because that will just push her away from you and cause her to be resentful of you. if you can't trust girls to have male friends and still be faithful to you, you shouldn't be in a relationship right now.
2007-02-21 15:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I have guy friends. My husband trust me. He has female Friends as well. I trust him. Trust is mutual. You have to get to the bottom of why you are insecure. Has she given you a reason to be insecure? If not the problem lies within you own self.
2007-02-21 15:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, it's not uncommon for a woman in a relationship to have male friends, my girl has friends that are guys but no matter who they are she knows she doesn't like them *yes she's told me* And you know what? I'm good friends with her friends to... Get to know these "guy" friends of hers.
2007-02-21 15:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by kahaluiboi808 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋