He says "I really like U & here in about a month, I might come 2 U about taking this thing to the next level. But I want 2 make sure U are mentally & emotionally prepared for it " Literally after that conversation, we spoke one time a week later & I never heard from him again. Now a month & a half later & he text me out the blue & invited me to go out. Long story short, I went out with him that night & he was on me all night long like I belonged 2 him. & said "I want to apologize for the way I handled things, but I had my reasons. Ex was still causing drama & I didnt want you to go throught that. I invited you out so i could tell u 2 your face" Now he calls about once a week. We went out as a group (me, him, and a mutual girlfriend that introduced us to begin with) the weekend before Valentines day & I met some of his female friends. He text me on Valentines day & havent heard from him since. Why the distance? Y did he come back? Is he serious about me? Is he just taking it slow now?
2007-02-21 15:38:32 · 9 answers · asked by Bird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he might like you a little bit but it sounds like he's playing with you at the same time. He's seeing you on his terms, he acts like you belong to him when he feels like it, he goes a month without talking to you and has spurts of no communication with you...
That should be enough to say he's playin.....
2007-02-21 15:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many more red flags do you need to see??? And being a Scorpio has absolutely nothing to do with this situation. My man's a Scorpio and he wouldn't dare pull this sh*t on me. Why are you putting up with it. He TEXT you on Valentines Day....OMG! If that doesn't scream HE WAS OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE then I don't know what does.
Let me help you out.....and this will make him either sh*t or get off the pot!
*Ignore his text messages.
*Ignore his calls.
*Don't acknowledge vmails.
If he was interested in you he would be there for you.
2007-02-21 23:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using you as his "fall back" girl. Don't let him take you for granted, thinking that when he is bored or has no other irons in the fire that he can come to you and expect you to be available.
It will do horrible things to your ego if you allow anyone to treat you this way, believe me.
2007-02-21 23:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he isn't using you for selfish reasons - like sex. Don't get caught up in his BS! If he's into you, he'll call you. You won't be wondering what his intentions are.
Read the book "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU". Even the abridged version is great!
2007-02-21 23:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by GiggleFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player and is stringing you along. Move on and find someone who will be there for you more than just once a week, once a month, or whenever it's convenient for him. You deserve MUCH better! Best of luck to you.
2007-02-21 23:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you contacted him or are you only waiting for him to contact you? It hasn't been that long since Valentine's Day, but maybe he just isn't ready for anything due to his other drama.
2007-02-21 23:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems this guy has no idea what he wants and i think the best thing you could do is move on and forget him. he uses you when he needs you and goes missing when he has something better. dont be sucked in by his games and walk away before he breaks your heart.
2007-02-21 23:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by whitey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a want to be player.......dump him.
2007-02-21 23:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it really relevant that "He's a Scorpio by the way?"
2007-02-21 23:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋