So I have known this girl for a while now. I met her through her brother. She lives out of state and when we talk it is all good. The few times I had seen her things were good. I just visited her this last weekend andI told her I liked her. She did not freak or anything so I thought it was all good. She also got mad when she thought I was flirting with her cousin, which I wasn't. But now I call her and she will not answer or anythig. Is it cause I told her my feeling? I mean we were holding hands and all that stuff. I am good with her parents and they tell me she has talked about me, but I am confused by what is going on. I really like her it hurts and I don't know what I should do. Be persistent, or just let time be the way.
2007-02-21 15:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by JMT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go and ask her what has been bothering her, sum up all your courage and go ask her whats the real score does she like you, is she jealous, that she thought you were flirting with her cousin, does she feel something for you, ask her does she need more time to think things over and you would give her space, only you can give solution to your problem, only by asking and asking straight to the point that you get to learn what you want to know , there is no reward for the weak , it takes courage to love
2007-02-21 15:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down. Everything should be fine.If you were holding hands and stuff, then it's not that she doesn't like you. You told her the way you felt, and she went along with it. Don't be persistant. You'll only make it worse. She'll get annoyed at the fact that you don't give her any time alone, and you'll lose any chance that you had with her. I've been on the losing end of this type of decision just recently, and I'd hate to see anyone end up in the same position as me. Call her once in awhile, but don't overdo it. You'll be alright. Good Luck, Man.
2007-02-21 23:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she's trying to adjust to your feelings. Feelings is one of the toughest things to swallow next to a horse pill. She may like you, but just needs a little time to think about what you've said without interruption. Don't give up, though. Just keep being the friend you are and give her a little space. You two will definitely need to talk, though. Give her about a week. Try talking to her again. If she still isn't responding, let her come to you. Work it out. Who knows what will happen?
2007-02-21 23:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think is that she either likes you or not at all. If she thought you were flirting with her cousin ( a BIG mistake if you really did it) she would think either 1. I guess he lied about liking me 2. I liked him but he is cheating on me 3. I don't like him so I'll make him mad. (or others)
That's all I got. I hope it helps.
2007-02-21 23:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this girl knows what she wants? Does she like attention. It sounds like she wants you when somebody else does. Maybe you should talk to her brother about this, he knows her and he will either say she is stringing you along for attention or she does like you, go for it.
2007-02-21 23:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think u should let time be the way.... just wait for her to talk to u... an set a limit on how long ur gonna wait on her... cause u dont wanna wait around forever... oh an btw... wat was she looking for at the moment??? a friend or a relationship???
2007-02-21 23:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rose A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
persistent. find out whats going on.
2007-02-21 23:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sweat her. just wait it out. if you pressure or sweat her too much, it won't work.
2007-02-21 23:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Keith M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋