My friend made me realise that i like my friend last yr. When i told her that i do like her, she started ignorin me so i took my feelings bac to save my friendship wit her. The thing is, that even after 3 months, i havent forgotten bout her, coz im in love wit her, but shes in an online relationship and shes never met the guy who she claims to love. My friends told me to give up coz shes a really good friend of mine and i always hangout wit her, but some ppl r tellin me to tell her that i love her. What should i do?
2007-02-21 14:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in grade 12, shes in grade 11.
2007-02-21 14:48:27 · update #1
Give her a few months. Then try again.
2007-02-21 14:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I'm sorry, but those people who are telling you you are in love with her are misguided. True love, you know, the really good kind, is something that is shared between two people. If the feelings arent returned, then it cant exactly be "love", persay. That is to say that it takes two to tango. Now, you may of course be really into her, but saying you love someone is something that in my opinion is a mutual thing. Just let her know, but be completely honest. Dont just say "Hey, I really really like you"..and be done with it..let her know the whole truth that you do, but you really dont want her to be awkward, wanna still have a good relationship with her as friends if shes really not into you, but that you do indeed have feelings for her that seem very strong. But you know, just do it casually so she isnt pushed away at all, and let her know you dont wanna make it a super big deal, because of that pushing away thing.
2007-02-21 22:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by BittersweetDude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i come from experience that you can fall very easily from someone over the net but keeping it together not the easiest thing. Ever hear the expression Right people wrong time? Well it;s good that your still frineds but it sounds like she's not giving up her online romance anytime soon so my suggestion would be to see other people for yourself if you like them but if something happends to her relationship then try and see what happends then but dont waste time trying to wait now or you'll miss out on alot of oportunities that you'll never get back.
2007-02-21 22:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her. Then you will never wonder "what if." However, you need to prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Meaning there is a chance that you telling her might have no effect and you need to be able to handle that. Even if she doesn't want to be with you, you'll bounce back, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-02-21 22:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by jazzies0412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool... Act like she's just your friend... After a few months she's feel as if your not interested and then she'll start showing some interest. Trust, it happens all the time.
2007-02-21 22:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grade difference isnt the biggest deal, but think about this fact. If you are this unsure that you have to ask online about you tell her. When you tell her you love her it has to come from the heart, then she will know you mean it. Girls can tell.
2007-02-21 22:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out (pretend) u just want to go get somethin to eat cos u dont hav anything else to do..then the rest is up to u
2007-02-21 22:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥†º н—є—ℓ—ℓ—σ º†♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask around to see how she feels about you and if she does not like you just be good friends and move on but if she likes you but afraid to admit it just know to take it slowly
2007-02-21 22:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by ginamoonbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get closer to her. Start doing more things with her. Talk to her more.
2007-02-21 22:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by derith300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart truly tells you to..
2007-02-21 22:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋