how can i get a night out with out my fiance?

Question

I have a new baby and not seen my girlfriends in a while....and its not like i want to go out to the club i would like to go out to dinner and maybe shopping or get my nails done.....but my fiance who is the father of our baby won't watch him won't change his diapers....and he constantly says i need to go out with the boys and does.....maybe once a week and i haven't been out in months....How can i get my cheating lazy expects me to do **** for him but never does **** for me fiance to let me go out....? his reason for not wanting me to go out is because he thinks im tryin to meet someone else and that he doesn't like my friends when he is always trying to flirt with them....i think he's full of **** help

Answer 1

I would be pissed off too! I think you deserve also to go out shopping, eating dinner getting your nails done with friends once in a while you had a baby and your probably super tired from taking care of it. You deserve some free time.

I think your husband is really being unfair and really jealous and he doesnt trust you.

Him not wanting to do anything with the baby just makes matter worse I would be so pissed off!!!
Maybe your parents can watch the baby for the day and tell your husband peace I am going out I mean he has no right to tell you that you cannot have fun.

If hes going to be unhelpful and unfair I seriously don't see a happy future between the both of you.

If you want this to work maybe some counciling should be considered for the both of you.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

you definitely could discuss with him and share the type you experience. each so often adult adult males get scared that they are gonna harm the toddler having intercourse. they gained't own as much because it via fact God forbid could a guy be frightened of something. My husband is a splash scared too yet generally he's scared while he sees her shifting around. he's affraid that if he places any stress on my abdomen he will harm us. i'm 38 weeks pregnant and extremely huge! I additionally had to rather ask him some instances if he became scared and then he finally instructed me confident. So only permit him understand the type you experience and maybe he will come around. solid luck