I am not a virgin anymore, but i have heard a lot of different answers to this question. How long should a girl wait to have sex with a guy?
2007-02-21 14:35:21 · 54 answers · asked by Double D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me I think that you should have sex with a guy when you're ready. But don't do it until you get to know the guy because a lot of guys out there are out there for just that thing.
2007-02-21 14:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that you are dating someone you are interested in, so I would say that if you have been dating six months or more and feel love and affection for this man, then yes. You have to feel comfortable and trust this person and get from him that he is sincere in his feelings for you. If you have any doubt, then do not have sex with this person. Just because you are not a virgin anymore, doesn't mean that you have to give sex away to anyone. Think of your body as a temple. A temple is a special place. You have to feel that you really care about the person, otherwise I would remain celibate until the right person comes along. Always maintain your standards and you will get respect from men that you date. No one should ever push you into sex prematurely...you have to be ready and have feelings for this person. I wish you good luck in the future.
2007-02-21 14:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the situation, the guy, how comfortable you are, how both of you view sex, and what you are looking for. If you want to be with guy, then you should wait two or three months to show some self-worth and respect. If it is just a mutual attraction with no relationship potential then go for it. I say how you both view sex because to some men it matters if you wait and to others it doesn't and the same goes for females. It's probably better to have the same view as the person. The most important thing is to just do what your instinct says and what is right for you.
2007-02-21 14:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by jazzies0412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to her. There is no regulation min or max amount of time. I've known couples who had sex on the first date and later got married and did great together. I've known others who waited to have sex, and the relationship folded not too long after.
You can't go wrong by waiting a bit though, so if in doubt, don't rush into it. Whether you wait until the 3rd or the 6th week or next full moon or whatever you choose, ya can't go wrong by waiting a bit....but sometimes ya can go wrong by doing it too soon.
Give him something to look forward to. ☺
2007-02-21 14:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question is what is the rush?A lot of people take having sex lightly but shouldn't it be taken more seriously?You are sharing something very precious with someone that shouldn't be shared with any random person.How old are you?I'm guessing young because of what you are asking.I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and we didn't have sex,though he may have wanted to he had the respect not to ask me and allow me to initiate it.We waited until we got married and it was the best thing that i could have ever done.People say you need experience ,but you know what experience makes you?Easy and not respected .So to answer your question you wait until you can see a long going future with him.
2007-02-21 14:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by TRUTH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on a lot.
What religion do you practice?
How old are you?
How long have you dated him?
Even though you're not a virgin, do you want to wait till marriage?
Are you of legal age (varies by state)?
Is your boyfriend of legal age(varies by state)?
Are you ready to face the emotions that go with having sex?
Do you love him?
Does he love you?
Will he call you the next day?
What if he doesn't call you the next day?
Have you been screened for STD's lately?
Has he been screened for STD's?
Are you on birth control?
What would happen if you got pregnant?
These are all questions that you need to have answers to. There's no "set time" to wait before having sex. For some people who are just craving sexual intimacy without love, then a one night stand is ok with them. For many, it's not, and leads to emotional confusion. For others, a few months is a good amount to wait. For others, waiting until marriage is the obvious choice.
The choice is yours. Decide wisely.
2007-02-21 14:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wait at least 1 to 2 months if a guy waits that long they are more then likley not just in it for the sex always a plus. Plus guys like the challenge and I think its better to wait just so you know someone better before you do it it means more that way.
2007-02-21 14:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me what i think is that it isn't down to this oh you must wait till your married to have sex. Cause we all know few do that and there's nothang wrong with it, I think gurls should have sex when they feel they are both mentally and physically ready. Not what everyone else is saying or doing. So i guess the answer to this question really is to yourself. You have to be true to yourself and if you can have sex and live with it and not regret it then you are ready to have sex. So don't listen to people saying oh your a whore you didn't wait, that just don't understand and maybe they will someday.
2007-02-21 14:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by rebel_barrelracer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should wait until she is ready to accept all possible consequences of sex with the man in consideration.
Personally I'm a firm believer in a long-term and committed relationship is the best time.
2007-02-21 14:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-21 14:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋