i kissed a guy when i was drunk, and i took it casually. even the guy whom i kissed ( he is in class ) never talks about it. but my current boyfriend is making a deal of it, he keeps on referring to that again and again. he thinks kissing is similar to one night stand.
i kissed that guy before i met my current boyfriend.( we have been seeing each other for 9 months now). he says how can you kiss someone just like that ?
2007-02-21 14:06:32 · 15 answers · asked by chandana b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have kissed seven guys ( 3 serious relationships and 4 casual kisses - with friends when i was out with them ). he talks about that he is eigth all the time. he is a virgin and i am not. he really get depressed.
in past i kissed a guy because he asked me to teach how to kiss ? my current boyfriend thinks that i have no self respect or control
2007-02-21 14:16:57 · update #1
1 word for you BF, he is a sore loser!!!!!!!!!
Ask him to grow up. What generation of time is he still living at?? Is he a mama's boy?? A disgrace for all guys!!!!!
If I were you, I rather be off without him than to stay with him.
2007-02-21 14:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Med 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting that you should mention that he is a virgin and you are not. You have kissed other boys and have well, uh gone further too with them (even if it has been before hooking up with him)...hmmmmmm...
Maybe what will make him feel that you have more self respect or control is for you to kiss him way way more often and perhaps spend a little time in the bedroom with him.
Hope this isn't too blunt, but it sounds like you are starving him and letting him see scrumptious appetizers go to waste to other "mouths" (literally)...
2007-02-21 14:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how u have this situation, he's just either the overprotective type of guy or he's just jealous that u kissed another guy even though it was by accident, there are guys like this that could think that if u hug a guyfriend, they'll think u two have something going on, so basically, he doesn't trust u and he's thinking ur going to do it again, so if he can't understand that ur human (and u know we all make mistakes), then he ain't even worth it, just saying, good luck!
2007-02-21 14:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by яσуαℓfℓυѕнѕρα∂є 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hah, you were drunk. Doesnt count. You might wanna ask him to go ahead and get smashed if he's so confident of "how people can do things". Even if it did count, judging people for anything done outside(in this case before) the realm of a relationship, and the two parties involved is paranoia. Youve been with him for a while, so of course its not nice to just say, "either show you care about me, and give it up, or i dont know that i can feel secure in this relationship". Nah, the guilt trip thing can work, and you arent a bad person to do it, but you might just want to casually bring up the idea of trust and security in your relationship. Kinda challenge him about it a little. I dunno. But for the most part, if you've been dating that long, we both know he really just needs to get over it.
2007-02-21 14:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by BittersweetDude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to most people kissing is something precious and should be shared between two individuals that are in a relationship. Your boyfriend is just hurt, but he shouldn't bring it up all the time. You should let him know that you are sorry for hurting him. Hopefully he'll get over it. Good luck.
2007-02-21 14:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of going out after college might make him comprehend which you're intense too on a similar time as having relaxing, u can try this there and it could be extra own than at school i wouldnt in simple terms come out and kiss him at school
2016-10-16 05:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by lipton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were drunk! tell your boyfriend he needs to beleive you when you say you dont have feelings for him-and no thats nothing like a one night stand...a kiss is WAY different than sex..hes overreacting.i mean id be mad if my boyfriend kissed someone right now but i wouldnt say id be half as mad as if he had sex with the girl.
2007-02-21 14:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf either to grow up or "Kiss off".
2007-02-21 14:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell you bf that you really love him. Tell him to trust you. If he couldn't forget the things you did last time...well...tell him to shut up!
2007-02-21 14:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that as long as you don't kiss anyone now you are with him, he should shut up.
2007-02-21 14:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋