I broke up with this guy yesterday, he was a really bad bf. He never talked to me or anything. But I think he's mad now, I can't really tell though cuz he's the type of guy who doesn't show you when he's mad. I don't want us to end up fighting like crazy somewhere down the line if he's mad at me cuz sometimes, I try fixing the problem, but I end up annoying the guy! How do I move on without thinking about him 24/7, and without being seriously hurt like with my last ex?
2007-02-21 14:02:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's a bad ex, why should you keep thinking about him 24/7. He's not even worth a thought!
Go out with friends. Spend your nights away making new friends. That will help you to forget him FAST!
2007-02-21 14:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Troy Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you did the best thing you could have done. I know it's hard. I'm gay and have dumped my last bf in August and missed him for like 2 weeks. You don't want to be with a guy that treats you like crap. I've been there, done it, and it's worth the initial heart ache of breaking up. Staying with him will only end up in more pain and frustration in the end. Guys are pigs, there are some good ones, but they are few and hard to find. Just stay strong and eventually you'll find a guy who will treat you right.
2007-02-21 22:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What no girlfriends to go out with on the town to scope out whats available? You girls have to have a man on your arm to make you feel worthy or something? Think of what you are saying "he was a really bad bf"; why should you let yourself be treated that way? Do yourself a favor stay single for about 3 months, treat guys like dirt and they will come flocking to you. Good Luck
2007-02-21 22:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Don't accept his calls/emails/text messages. Delete his numbers, address and email from your phone(s) and email programs.
* Get rid of everything he gave you. You better not contact him either.
* Get with your friends and do stuff together.
* When by yourself, find things to do to keep you from thinking about him
* Do a self-evaluation. Highlight the good and bad of the relationship and keep them in mind when you deal with future guys.
* Do not start dating others immediately. Although you said he was a bad boyfriend, you still need to get over the drama and baggage associated with that relationship. You don't need to take that and dump it on the other guys you're gonna be dating in the future.
It will take time and it won't be easy, but you can do it.
2007-02-21 22:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, just delete him from your life, get rid of all his numbers or addresses that makes it harder to call or talk to him when your feeling lonely or think hes mad or anything. but if you want to sat friends you just have to give him space, if he doesn't show you when he's mad don't care that he's mad and don't try to fix it. he will get over it and in the end you will be happy. just stop bringing it up, i know that will be hard for you to do because you want everything to be OK but its not right now. you just have to Waite it out and hope things get better.
2007-02-21 22:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump right in to another relationship. hang out with good friends, frequently. Try to be with YOUR friends, not mutual friends of the two of you. Don't talk about him. Occupy your time with things you like to do and while doing them, really wear yourself out so you will fall asleep quicker at night when you are alone as not to lie awake and think about him. It will take some time, but you will eventually get over him and with what I just told you, the time will pass rather quickly.
2007-02-21 22:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by greghllwd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a bad bf why would you be sad to move on? I'm sure there are many more guys who like you so hang out with your friends & try to act happy. You'll get over it soon.
2007-02-21 22:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave town for a few days if you can. If you cant, get out of town on the weekend. Dedicate your time to sometihng else for a couple of days. Dont call/dont email/cut off all contact...
u deserve to be treated like a princess...
2007-02-21 22:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Peck C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date like crazy. Keep yourself busy,get a hobby and spend more time with your friends. Once you have other things taking up your time,you won't be so concerned about your ex and you'll be too busy to miss him
2007-02-21 22:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him think about it first...u broke up with him yesterday...he still needs time to get over with it...If u dont feel like u dont wanna be with him just let him go, and move on...dont waste ur time for him if u dont feel like its the right guy :-)
2007-02-21 22:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by paulinka52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋