I was wondering if someone could give details and the difference on sex with someone you are deeply in love with compared to just sex with a person that you are not in love with but care about. Is it more pleasurable sexually or strictly more pleasurable emotionally. Only been with one woman. Trying to figure out if I am in love. I dont think I am.
2007-02-21 14:00:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to say, but the difference between having seX and making love is when you just go through the motions, but you don't have a connection there. Like, afterwards do you feel like there is no other place you'd rather be? Do you cuddle after seX? Do you look at her when she is laying neXt to you? How do you feel about her? It's not just about the seX, but that has a lot to do with how connected you are to a person. Making love is..amazing..or it should be..kissing..caressing..you can't get enough of that person. You will do anything for them and to see them happy. I guess it's hard to tell because you have nothing else to compare it to. Sometimes, it can be hard if you are only with one person. Some people just know and don't want to be with anyone else. However, in your case I think you want to eXplore the opportunities out there. I'd say don't settle unless you are sure that the person that you are with is making you happy. If that means going out with other people to make sure that this is the right person then do it. Don't make the mistake of being with someone and cheating on them if you are not sure. That's the worst thing to do..just be honest.
2007-02-21 14:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want there to be a difference... the only one would be that sex is for lust and making love is out of love. if you get there quick it's just plain sex. personaly i don't see a big difference though.
2007-02-21 22:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by new b-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do every thing that you can to make sure that your partner is satisfied And you do it because it seems natural and not because you think you have to, that's making love
2007-02-21 22:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dan ( 2 ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making love is like kissing and crap, and sex is where you undress, get in the bed, car, anywhere, and do stuff.......
2007-02-21 22:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋